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Does she like me? Or just being nice?

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Question - (19 May 2013) 3 Answers - (Newest, 19 May 2013)
A female United States age 30-35, *d79 writes:

I've been working with this girl for about a month now, and I really like her. But the problem is I don't know if she likes me back or not. I'm not very good at telling when a girl likes you or if they're just being friendly.

Whenever I'm working with her she is always touching my arm or my back. One time I was teaching her how to take orders at work and she was standing really close to me to the point where she was kind of leaning on me when there was enough space for us both. She asked my friend for my number. I'm not exactly sure what the reason was. A coworker asked me to cover his shift the other day, and when I asked who was working he told me her and a few other people and told me that she said she wanted me to take it because she wants to work with me. I've been selling tickets for my school for an event and I asked her if she wanted to buy one. She asked if I would be there and than told me maybe when I said yes. She also told me I was cute once...

Anyways, is she just being nice or does she actually likes me? Even if its just a little.

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A female reader, Dionee' South Africa +, writes (19 May 2013):

Dionee' agony auntYes she's into you. Ask her to lunch perhaps or dinner after a shift as a start and see where it goes. Take it one step at a time

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2013):

Would you get the message if she hit you over the head with it?

Stop pretending you don't get it. You're afraid because you don't know what to do next? Is that it?

Don't start anything at work. Wait until after the shift is over, and you're leaving. Ask her if she would like to go out with you sometime. Ask if it's okay to call or text her sometime. She already has your number.

Plan what you would do ahead of time, so you can setup a date. That way, if she says yes, you're not scrambling for an idea of where to go or what to do.

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (19 May 2013):

Sageoldguy1465 agony auntFrom the "sound" of your submittal, I'd say the only way this girl could make her interest in you any clearer or certain would be if she printed it in large, bold letters on a ping-pong paddle and smacked you directly in the nose with it!!!!!

Good luck.....

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