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writes:My boyfriend asked his friends girlfriend if she was still with her boyfriend, should i be worried?My boyfriend was friends with her boyfriend first, so that is how he knows her. Do you think he was just asking to be friendly, or what ?. I saw that on one of his messages, but i read the others, and there was nothing there that suggested that he wanted to, or had been, unfaithful. Reply to this Question
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reader, largentsgirl89  +, writes (30 May 2013):
 The second you have to play detective in your relationship, there is a problem.
Have you talked to him about this? perhaps he knows something that he wants to tell her, but doesn't know if he should.
He could just be being nice. Contrary to popular belief guys can just be friends with girls and it be completely platonic. Unless he starts messaging her all the time or inappropriate things or topics, I wouldn't worry about it.
You need to have more trust in him if you want your relationship to work.
Good luck and i hope everything works out for you.
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reader, fzald +, writes (20 May 2013):
They might just be good friends and perhaps he has reason to believe there's something wrong in their relationship and wants to offer his help.But I want to ask you this. Why were you reading his messages? Was there a reason for that? Has your boyfriend ever done anything to make you feel like he might be unfaithful?If he has never done anything wrong, then you need to give him a break and trust him. I have a girlfriend but my closest friend outside the relationship is also a girl. I met her because I was friends with her husband since childhood. (He died of cancer, unfortunately.) Our friendship is this type - we can discuss our relationships with each other pretty openly. So yes, based on this message alone, I do believe he's just being friendly. Trust him, and if I were you I wouldn't even bring it up to him.
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