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writes:There is this girl my boyfriend has been talking to online. I found out she has a huge crush on him and has been trying to hook up with him for weeks now. What's worse is that I found out she sent him a naked picture. I'm upset because even though my boyfriend says he doesn't want to be with her, he still continues to talk to her and it really upsets me...what should I do ?
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reader, Tenderlovingcare +, writes (20 May 2013):
 My partner had a friend like this. I told him to cut the relationship off because she obviously didn't accept the fact that we were together as every time we'd arrange to do something with her she'd agree thinking it was just them and when she found out I was going, would back out. Just be clear, tell him you want their friendship over and now.
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reader, largentsgirl89  +, writes (20 May 2013):
 He should stop all contact with her knowing that it makes you uncomfortable. If you have an established relationship with this guy, then he is cheating on you. Would he be okay with you getting sent pictures of naked guys?
Make him pick, you or her. This is ridiculous. He shouldn't be communicating with her, especially since he claims he doesn't want her. IF he doesn't want her, why is he still talking to her.
Break up with him or make him choose.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2013): Call it off, this guy's trying to have all the cakes in the shop. You deserve better than that, tell him to sling his hook!
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reader, Maddie58 +, writes (19 May 2013):
Hi hun if he thinks anything off you he would not still be talking to this girl he knows it upsets you so he should be telling her to jog on because he wants to be with you,as for the nude picture i would no way put up with that its just not on hes got no respect for you tell him if you find out hes been intouch with her in anyway shape or form again he can do one you are worth so much more trust me!!!!!!!
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reader, shrodingerscat +, writes (19 May 2013):
 He's enjoying this girl's inappropriate attention. You two are in a relationship and this is hurting you, it's unacceptable behavior because it's crossing your boundaries.
Were I you, I'd give him two choices...you, or her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2013): Have you a established relationship between you and your boyfriend? If not there is nothing much you can do. But if you do have one tell him to delete the pictures and you undress and let him masturbate with you being naked in the room with him. If get cant just get turned on by you then dump him and move on. You don't need this kind of relationship. You get out of this relationship and find another I have lots of men friends who would cherish you and you only. What the f---? You don't need a boyfriend that spanks his monkey to nude pictures of another bitch. If any masturbation should be going on is the stuff between you two. In matter of fact challenge him on this. You deserve to have some pleasure to. Don't blow his sausage let him spank his monkey with you there watching. If he wont do that then throw his ass out of your relationship. What is fair is fair.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (19 May 2013):
 Let's see. He's been chatting with a girl online, she sent him a naked picture. You find out, you confront him, he says "Oh I don't care about her" and yet… he still continues to talk to her.
What should you do?
What I would do is break up with him. He's proven himself to be willing to cheat emotionally, to accept nude pictures from an acquaintance and then to continue chatting with her even after his girlfriend has asked him to stop.
What do you think your alternatives are?
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