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anonymous
writes: Hello,Hey so I got the number of this guy I'm into from my friend about a week ago. I sent him a text saying it was me and I was sorry for getting really sloppy while drunk. He replied in about a minute saying it was fine. We then sent about ten messages, and he would match my texting pace. He asked me if I remembered anything, and when I told him what I did, he said we almost hooked up. my friends filled me in. And... he never responded. Can you guys help? I thought it was going well. But he just stopped texting me. A couple of my friends just think I didn't give him anything decent to respond to, but I don't know. Should I text him again? It's been almost a week since our first conversation cause I didn't want to seem pushy or clingy. I like him a fair amount though. It should be noted that I've only ever hung out with this guy when we were with our mutual friend(s) so I don't quite feel comfortable yet asking him to chill with just me. So should I text him? Or forget him?
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reader, largentsgirl89 +, writes (30 May 2013):
Hang out with him where there isn't any alcohol or drugs so he can get to know the real you and you won't forget anything.
He could have not replied because he didn't know what to say and he could have just thought you were a hookup. I know that sounds harsh, but sometimes that's how it is.
I would text him and ask him how he is or something general like that and if he texts back, then great and if not then I wouldn't bother with him. I would move on.
Good luck and be careful at the parties and stuff, guys like to take advantage.
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