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*dviceneeded01
writes:hi, okay, so nearly 4 months ago, me and my girlfriend of 2 years split up. She split up with me, at the time her dad had got into a terrible accident and was in intensive care, and was told that he would be paralysed from the neck down, also she had to move into my parents house with me, as we got broken into at her house and we were scared to go back. I think that all of this got on top of her, and she broke up with me, just before all of this happened, we were happier than we had ever been, so it come as a shock. So nearly 4 months on, ive tried to stop contact, but its so hard, i loved her so much, and to just stop talking to her was impossible. I recently went away for 2 months, to try and keep my mind off of it, and to clear my head. Whilst I have been gone, i have contacted her a few times, she hasnt contacted me, but when she replies to me she told me she missed me. Told me that she still loves me and always will, we have flirted a bit, she has sent me a naughty ish picture, and still calls me by my pet name. This isnt consistent, its not like we talk everyday, but when we do talk, one of those things always happens. I am going home in about 3 weeks, and i really want to get her back. Im not sure how ready she is, but from the looks of what i have said, do you think there is any chance? I believe she is my soulmate, the girl i want to spend the rest of my life with. Do any of you have any advice, have any success stories? Nothing was wrong with our relationship, i think it was just circumstance and timing! please help me and let me see the hope, that i am so sure is there!! Thank you all for your time!x
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reader, oldbag +, writes (11 June 2013):
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Well there you go then, she's made a move, up to you now, be bold!
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reader, adviceneeded01 +, writes (10 June 2013):
adviceneeded01 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much old bag, its really weird i got home tonight and she sent me a fb friend request, she hasnt contacted me the whole time ive been away, but responds to me, that is a good positive sign i think. Thank you for answering my question :D x
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2013): Thank you old bag.. It's so nice to have someone answer my question.. I just got home and had a fb request from her. That has got to be a good sign hasn't it! :)
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reader, oldbag +, writes (10 June 2013):
Hi
When you get home arrange to meet her and talk. It's the only way you will know where you stand. We can't predict how she feels or whether she will want to try again.
If you get a negative response, for your own sake let go and don't contact her again till your over her.
Good Luck
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