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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:So, I'm near to the end of my first year at university (my last exam is on the 11th!). It's been a rollercoaster of a year, but I think things are looking up.Here's the thing. For the last six months I've had this crush on a girl, that I've been trying to ignore/put off because a) it's terrifying and b) my life has been all over the place and it was easier to just pretend I wasn't interested. But I feel like I can't pretend any more.I don't know if she's interested in women; she's never identified as straight or anything else. She's pretty touchy feely with me, and is receptive when I'm the same with her... I want to interpret this as positive signals but I just have no idea any more!!I'm not sure how to confess, when, where, or if I should at all. This is the first time I've had to deal with a crush on someone whose sexuality was completely unknown.Thank you for your time!
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo +, writes (12 June 2013):
 Hi,
So i few options-
1- Do you know any of her friends or anyone that knows her well enough that they would know who she may have dated in the past or who she may like, if so you could always try asking them.
2- Start talking to her and try and bring someone up like celebrities you think are hot or something like that, a good way to see which way she may swing.
3- The old classic- ask her out, coffee, cinema.... anything you like and see what she says. If she is straight you just tell her you didn't realise and make sure she knows you still want to be mates.
Good luck!
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reader, oldbag +, writes (10 June 2013):
 Hi
Only one way to find out, ask her on a date, or for a coffee or a drink or to share your lunch in the sunshine.
She can either say yes or no, her actions sound positive though.
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