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Husband's female work mate told him theres a guy try to flirt with her, should I worry?

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Question - (10 June 2013) 1 Answers - (Newest, 10 June 2013)
A female Ireland age 30-35, *C writes:

Hello everyone, Im here for asking a question. And wish I would get advice and answers. Thanks.

My husband tells me a lot of his work, but I have never go to where he works, so I havent meet any of his workmates. But he tells me a lot of his work and his workmates.

And he always mention a woman whos married and has 2 kids. And yesterday he told me this woman told him theres a guy tried to flirt with her. She told my husband dont tell any other people. Cos she just shared it with him only.

But I think, if I was her I wouldnt tell anyone in my work about someone tried to flirt with me if this happens on me. I think theres something between them but Im not sure cos they dont text each other or call each other when they dont work. Guess they just talk when they work only.

But I feel theres something between them, is that just me think too much or .... anything else?

Wish I would get answer from you.

Thank you.

PS

We dont live in the same city at the moment and Im about moving over to his city soon - in a couple of weeks. And both of us are 24. We just got married last year.

He flirted with girls online before when we were boyfriend and girlfriend. Guess thats why I worry so much. :S

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2013):

Hi!

In my opinion I don't believe this is something to worry about- to me it sounds quite genuine; it's a good norm to tell your partner about stuff at work- if there was something going on between them maybe he would keep it on the down low, not mention it and what exactly makes you think this? It would be a bit suspicious if they were texting, but they're not so that's something :)

Also it's not like you've just met him and you've got your creep alarm blaring! The flirting with others early in the relationship isn't good, but if it was four years ago, and you've come to terms with that...

Anyway need some more info on what signs there are he's cheating?

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