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writes:HiI met this guy on line about 4 weeks ago,I felt a attraction to him and he expressed he was attracted and interested in me and wanted to talk more and we have been flirting like mad via text more than phone. when the txts or conversation gets hot and sexual he gets to a point where he suddenly disappears or say he has to go. I have noticed he gets jealous if i mention anything about other men who are my colleagues. About 10 days ago I told him some guys were asking me for my number,he asked who they were and where I was,I replied via text they were just random guys,and since that day he has not been in contact or returned any of my texts. We had arranged to meet up in two weeks,but I have no idea if that is still on and why he is ignoring me all of a sudden,especially as he has been so lovely and shown so much intrest,he was the one to suggest we meet but now he is ignoring me,please help... I really like him and think we could have something amazing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2013): People can only guess or assume. No one knows or has any idea about this guy, and neither do you. The fact that you have put so much into this guy is not healthy. If guys are giving you their number (is that really true?) then why is a stranger off the internet getting to you like this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2013): he is from the internet, so who knows the mind of a guy like him. why dont you get dressed up and meet someone out there in the real world?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2013): He may be jealous or maybe he`s been stringing a few of you along and chose who he wants now, which was someone else.Why are you so into someone you don't even know? Is your private life and opportunities very bad?
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reader, somewhere_between +, writes (8 January 2013):
 Do you really think you will have an "amazing" relationship? You should be seeing red flags not fretting. What does it matter what his reasons are. What should be addressed at this moment is why you have got attached to someone you dont know anyone about, so easily? You havent even met. What`s even worse is he is someone who lives online. Why dont you sort out why you are so desperate for a relationship and work on your real life, not this online dream?
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (8 January 2013):
 Well of course he went POOF… he thought he was special and you proved to him he’s not by telling him you were willing to text with random guys. He decided that he doesn’t want to even attempt a relationship with a woman who is so cavalier…
IF you have had ANY kind of flirting conversations with him, he thinks you do that with other men too now.
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reader, Jeanette82 +, writes (8 January 2013):
 You have been living out a fantasy. You have not met. You know absolutely nothing about him except for what he has chose to say to you. His reasons for disappearing could be anything from his wife suspecting something to him being a bit of a nut job. Be careful or you will get hurt. Is there no REAL LIFE opportunities for you out there?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2013): Never tell a man you're interested in that someone else is showing interest! It is not going to make them be like wow shes a great catch..I better jump on this one! If anything, it will discourage them!! I've been in a serious relationship for months now, and I have clients hit on me and ask for my number..but do I tell my significant other? NO. There is no reason to lay into any insecurities he might have. He probably has jealously issues..might be insecure, so he probably gave up.
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