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writes:I just recently started seeing this guy, We have amazing chemistry and hit it off right away, talked for hours and he kept saying over and over how amazing the night was and how he hasn't been like this with anyone in a very long time. we were just at his house, and made out but nothing other than that. We went to go to sleep and he kissed me on the forehead and went to sleep. What does that mean? We were then supposed to hang out on Friday but he canceled because he had to meet up with his ex to discuss money (he has a 20 month old) only to text me after saying he wasn't going to go and that we should hang out. I was going to go out which he knew so then said he felt bad and to not come. I said that i wasn't going to go out anymore anyways so i could still hang out and he said not to, that we would another night and then never replied after. He hasnt messaged me since, and he used to text me every single day from morning on. I'm just so confused about what i maybe did wrong?
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reader, Denise32  +, writes (3 September 2012):
 Well, he cancelled his plan to meet up with his ex; said you and he could meet, but then backtracked on that, and even after you said, no, you were still willing to get together, he discouraged the idea.
That was only a couple days ago. It's a little soon to be worrying whether it's over. Something else could have come up.
You wonder what you did wrong. My response to that is that you probably did nothing wrong. It is possible, though, that if you first had amazing chemistry and hit it off so well, that's infatuation.
What starts out as "hot and heavy" (I'm not saying you did) but generally speaking, it tends to burn out fairly quickly. Something to be aware of, but not necessarily to worry about.
He could just be busy. Wait a few more days and see if he gets in touch. If not, why not try calling him just to say "hi" and see how he responds?
Good luck.
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