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writes:I dont know what to do about my sex life. Ive been with my bf for 2years now, and at first the sex was great and i couldnt get enough of it. Was in college then so it was a long distance relationship. Graduated last year, now working and we're still on. However our sexlife has really gone downhill. He comes to my place every weekend, and what we do is sort of routine and has gotten so boring. He's a good lover honestly and he tries so hard. He still makes me cum but the orgasms arent as exciting as they used to be. I sleep with other men for money so i tell myself that my bf will give me pleasure,with the other people its just business and indeed i dont feel a thing.the problem is that even his touch has lost its magic and i dont enjoy him. I dont kno if the fact that since january he has been employed has anything to do with it. When he had a job he didnt take care of it.he was always late and sometimes absent until he got fired.he lives with his brother and has to ask for everything even though he's nearly 30 now.cant think of marriage when he cant even support himself.im really bored with the whole thing but i dont want to dump him.i dont know whether i like him that much or its just the fear of being alone thats making me stick with him.i didnt invite him over last weekend so that maybe i should miss him or miss sex but i dont miss either.plus ive been getting UTIs then yeast infections all disrupting my libido.dont know what to do.
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reader, johncandrews986  +, writes (5 November 2012):
Ignoring all the other complications, has he been doing things differently lately, maybe he needs physical help like testosterone supplements. I've been reading Ageless Male testimonials and maybe that will help him. Talk to him about it. Maybe if he became financially independent, you would respect him more and see a future with him and also be able to leave the other job.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2012): Ok. So sex can become boring if you're in a partnership regardless of whether you're a sex worker or not! Does he know though? If he knows and accepts this it's all good. As for the spark in your sex life - I'm not sure - just don't let anyone tell you anything you do is wrong unless you find it is harmful to you or others. :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2012): I have one thing to say....not right!!!!!!!!!!It's hard to give advice when you're cheating. Stop what your doing. If you really love him stay with him only him. You don't really need to do what your doing to be happy
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (4 September 2012):
 If you're having sex with men to earn money and are getting yeast infections, it's no wonder you can't enjoy sex with your boyfriend.
Are you insisting the men you have sex with use condoms? Because if not - and I know they often don't want to or else downright refuse to use one - you are at risk for STDs, if not getting infected with HIV.
You say you have a job. Does it pay so little that you have to seek out men to earn extra? How about a part-time job in addition to the one you now have, if so?
But if you choose to continue having sexual partners, it would be a good idea to insist that no condom = no sex. But is it really worth risking your health to continue earning a bit extra this way? Think about it.
Good luck!
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