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writes:Hi so in the last couple of months I've been on depression tablets for anxiety an depression. I've struggled with it for years but recently it had got worse. The problem is my mom has started yelling at me and ignoring me when I get in from work, she complains that I do nothing in the house and that I'm lazy, the irony of this is that I do a lot of stuff in the house from cooking dinner to sorting stuff for my bf(he lives with us) he works three nights a week 6pm till 12am everyday my mom tells me to put his washing out, cook dinner for him and generally do everything for him, I don't mind occasionally but I work two jobs and go to college so I'm busy all week.I'm getting stressed an I think the yelling an stuff is making it worse i get wound up at night when she says I'm lazy and don't help out when I do. There are six of us in my house and me and my mom are the only ones who do things yet when no one else helps out at dinner I'm yelled at, when I'm doing course work and everyone else is watching tv I'm expected to go help out and job forbid I might tell her I'm working as that's no excuse. Everyone in the house is capible of helping out but don't and get away with it.In fact one day my Forster placement got out of bed at 1pm and was just told next time not so late huh yet me if I'm in bed at 10am my mom is upstairs knocking my door asking why I'm still in bed. Anyone got any ideas on how to relieve the tension in this situation? Or been here themselves? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNot possible I'm not on a proper wage and the housing market here is insane
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2012): how about getting your own place?
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