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writes:hi, I am a 22 year girl...doing post graduation.In my past life I get 3 relationships, but all broke.now in my new college I wanted to start new.....I want someone in my college to be my boyfreind.but here no body takes intrest in me, though I am avarage looking, sweet, sober, skinny but curvy girl. I am also little bit shy.I want to get attenttion of boys.I also get a proposal of a boy out side my college....he loves me. but I hate long distance relation. sometime being frustrated I thought to accept his proposal....what should I do??should I wait for response in my college??....already 1 month passed and I did not get any proposal.or should I accept his proposal??plz help me. thank you.
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reader, maverick494  +, writes (25 September 2012):
Contrary to popular belief, going to college is not a replica of the events in teen TV series where everyone dates everyone and you get together with someone in the first week. In fact in my class alone no-one ever hooked up with one another. Became friends, yes, but nothing romantic. So get that idiotic idea out of your head that just because you didn't get a bf within 2 months, something's wrong. That kind of desperation is actually a little pathetic.
Enjoy being single. If you meet a guy you want to date, that's nice. But don't think it's some magical dating machine.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (24 September 2012):
 Honey, slow down
It'w not there there is a Fairy Boyfriend Mother standing at then entrance to the college handing out Boyfriends to needy girls.
ENJOY college, ENJOY getting to know people, make some friends and mostly learn to not be so desperate. A desperate girl is like a NEON sign.
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reader, MikeEa1  +, writes (24 September 2012):
 I have had years between relationships. it is so good to learn about yourself when you are alone. I understand the emotional hardship but it really helps to spend some time alone. I understand your frustration but I think it is worth getting used to it for a while.
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reader, bini magna  +, writes (24 September 2012):
 there iz these quote''a wrong relationship will make u feel more ALONE than when u were SINGLE''if u are in rush u r waiting these destiny.u better try to love people and wait to love u in return,but don't always wait someone to love u and approach u only. of course being single iz difficult at this age but oftentimes it's more challenging to get ur soul mate and ur love chemistry.btw i am 26,2 months later i'll turn to 27 yet i am single,but i am optimistic, hope one day thingz will enter into z right track at z right time! So be optimistic and have faith in love.good luck
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (24 September 2012):
 Relax ! Take it easy. Rome wasn't built in one day.
ONE month , and you are already panicking... ? Calm down. Don't believe that any bf is better than no bf at all, - 99% chances that life is going to disabuse you bitterly of this silly notion.
Really, what's your rush. If it was one year I could see how perhaps your singletude could make you vulnerable and tempted to settle for less than you want, but after one month ?...
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (24 September 2012):
 You know, it's possible that, at a post-graduate level, a lot of the men in your college are either resolved to focus on their studies or are already in relationships.
Resolutions to focus on studies rarely outlive the first 6 weeks, so maybe you'll get more attention in coming months :)
Don't fret, being single is much better than chasing after guys just for the sake of companionship.
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (24 September 2012):
 Why dont you enjoy your time single?
there is plenty of time to settle down and get married (and when you do, chances are you will lose some personal freedom)
so, why not take this opportunity, to sieze and live in the moment?
the right guy will come along at the right time.
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reader, ChaseTerrier +, writes (24 September 2012):
You do realize that there is nothing wrong with being single???
There are pros and cons of having a boyfriend and there are pros and cons of being singe. So I would recommend enjoying the single life until you find a boyfriend.
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