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writes:I've had a pretty rough relationship with my bf's sister for the past two years since I started dating her brother. She even punched me in the face once for no reason, right in front of my boyfriend and he didn't even do anything. She recorded me and my bf doing some 'stuff' and showed it to a lot of people at my previous school, she made up rumors about me, etc.Truth is, I absolutely despise her and it's affecting my life way too much. I get furious when my boyfriend spends time with her. Last Friday my boyfriend went partying and she went with him and invited a friend (who is also my friend). I didn't know about this until I found out from another source that my bf had gone there with his sister and our mutual friend (who didn't tell me anything about it), it pissed me off so much that I got into a huge fight today and I lost a close friend. At first I thought I was upset that she didn't tell me she was going out with him but on a second thought, I think it was because she is now better friends with my bf's sister than with me even though she knows what this girl has done to me.How do I let go of this hate towards her? I've even thought of breaking up with my bf because being with him implies having to deal with this. Please help me. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2012): Drop your boyfriend like a hot potatoe, he needs to put his sister in check but instead he says absolutely nothing.
Then they all go partying and leave you out.
I know exactly how you feel because a couple of month ago I was in a simile situation and its not a good feeling and I work with these people everyday, To get rid of the hate I would drop them all and go a different direction, that's what I did on my job, I dropped them all as being friends, I speak and keep going. They are not worth being stressed over. People like that have evil spirit.
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (25 September 2012):
 Why does your boyfriend not do anything about this? His sister's behavior is not excusable and if he cant stand up for you then that shows you what kind of a person he is. He's not taking care of you and he's not man enough to face reality. Is that the kind of guy you want to be with?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2012): Why doesn't your boyfriend do anything? He witnessed the punch, so what's with his passive demeanor? He could have addressed the issue to his sister when you weren't around, but have you asked him face to face the reason for his behavior or his sister's?
Getting over this hate would be the mature thing to do. By getting over it, you can talk it out in a calm and reciprocal matter or just brush it all off. But, honestly, if someone who's supposed to love you does not stand up for you, then drop that person.
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