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writes:Hello everyone! I just wanted to know your thoughts on calling your significant other Daddy during sex. Not dad, or father, I mean it on the sexual way.It started with him pestering me to do something, and I ultimately rolled my eyes and sardonically said "fine DAD I'll do it! Now stop annoying me!" and laughed. He smiled and said I was a "naughty little girl" and spanked me, and then things got very wild and heavy. It just started like that, and sometimes we roleplay.I am not submissive at all on real life, in fact me and my boyfriend keep a healthy banter and we tease each other a lot. During sex, I am not a mild person at all either. I do not see my actual father, we do not even speak, so it does not bother me, and I don't ever think of him.In turn my bf calls me babygirl, my little girl, angel, baby...even out of bed.I just see him in a position of power in bed, since is only then when I "obey" him. What is your opinion on this everyone? I thought that this could be "daddy issues", but then again I had a good relationship with my father. It is him in power that excites me. What do you guys think? is it weird? Reply to this Question
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reader, UKchick  +, writes (25 September 2012):
Ive been with plenty of men who loved being called daddy. it makes them feel in control, like you belong to them. i find that it usually makes them perform better haha. another thing is that usually every man loves being called it and some women are a bit freaked out. i dont see why tbh. it seems to work in your relationship so dotn stop girl. its defo not weird.
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reader, rescuer01 +, writes (25 September 2012):
No,I don't because me and my wife calls eachother daddy and mama sometimes when we are having sex and we have found out by doing that,itmakes things alittle hotter for us.I say as long as the 2 of you is ok with it,go for it.
Have fun!
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (25 September 2012):
 I think when it's part of "play" it's not that weird. It makes me think of Joe Dirt (the movie and the "sister" scene).
If it WORKS for you two.. then don;t sweat it. Now if you get to a point where you CAN'T enjoy sex without having him "play" Daddy.. you might have a bit of a fetish.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2012): I see nothing wrong or weird with it at all. 'Daddy' is like the word 'baby' you're not actually calling him your father just like he's not calling you an infant.
I've been called daddy during sex, I've heard Jesus' name being called out a hell of a lot too, I've been called sailor, sergeant, officer, Mr. president you name it hehe, I've even been called things like asshole, shithead, pathetic, little boy as part of dom play.
OP use whatever words you like, words can excite, and that's what this word does. If you nor he have an issue using it in a playful way then there's nothing weird about it.
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