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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Im in my final year at university, and i have met this girl from vietnam. She is very nice, and friendly. Because of our cultural differences i found it harder to understand her signs of flirting if any.However since our first few days at uni, i have got along well with her.The second day we met at uni for lectures, she invited me round to meet her house mates and have dinner, i got along with everyone and told me her friends think im funny.Anyway, everday we see each other and spend time after classes going library, than it switched to going shopping, we even spend 3hours walking along the beach at her request..i was bloody tired!!She does laugh alot at my little jokes, but i dont know if im a good friend or perhaps she sees me as something else.How can i possibly find out? She is shy, but she does talk much more now, and when speaking online she speciifically told me her friends say that she is loud, and talks too much and she is not shy at home. What kind of hint is that?How am i supposed to make her act like that around me?Reason i am asking this is because today she didnt have any classes with me, but she sent me message saying she is not far from my building if i want to meet after. So i went to see her, she suggested going for coffee, we ended up going to this very place by the beach, she was loving it!But im not sure if she is loving the area, or if she actually likes me?Usually i would know how to find out, but this one is tricky!Thank you for reading.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (5 October 2012):
 The only way to get her to act that way around you is to get to know her better, and you are on the right track. To me it sounds like she does like you and that this might actually be the start off something very special. I think you should ask her would she like to go on a date sometime and see how she responds to that. Good luck.
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