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*hymexycpl
writes:If wife is going through menapause and is affecting our sex life what do I do? I have been pro-active and suggested many things we can do, but she says sex is not that important to her anymore and that sucks.I love my wife, but when she had our kids her mojo went go go. what can I do to re- Ignite her passion and show her she is still sexy and hot. I dont want to look outside the box for pleasure but getting a little tired of self gratification...
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reader, shymexycpl +, writes (15 October 2012):
shymexycpl is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks all for your comments. I will try some things out I have been reading about hopefully this will light the bon fire..lol I can only hope...thanks all...
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reader, malvern  +, writes (5 October 2012):
 Take your wife back to the things that used to turn her on all those years ago. Perhaps it was a day together followed by meal in a restaurant, a long lazy walk together, a visit to a place you always enjoyed going to. In other words, without actually telling her, try to rekindle what you once used to have before you had children. Get her away from the stresses and strains of everyday life, some place where she can relax, where she only has to think about herself, and hopefully some of her feelings may start to re-emerge.
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reader, BondGirl72 +, writes (5 October 2012):
 I like sexy emails and texts. Just be sure the sexy email isn't over work email. I also like little things like touching on an intimate part of my body...like the small of my back. I think there are very subtle yet smoking hot comments you can make to one another. My ex used to do this all the time and I constantly wanted him. One time he had me so worked up that I showed up to his office in a trench coat and nothing else. I know that sounds cliche, but he loved it. You can also give her unexpected surprises like taking her out to dinner, etc.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2012): For us women its about the intimacy and closeness, not just the sex that's an added bonus.
Why not plan a head you make dinner on a Friday, you get the kids to bed while she has a lovely bath.. You then give her a special massage, and see where it leads.. If that all fails then maybe your wife needs to go to your doctor. I'm a RMN and get some hormone therapy.
I'm 40 and raising two under 5's and 19yr old haha and it's tiring let me tell you.. So try and give her as much support as you can..
Hope this helps..
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