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I need advice about a crush on a teacher.

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Question - (5 October 2012) 6 Answers - (Newest, 30 October 2012)
A male United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I have a massive crush on my teacher and recently I have found myself completely enamored with her armpits. Whenever she raises her arms I can't help but stare at her underarms, and every single lesson, I get an erection. I also get turned on by the way she smells whether it's her perfume or her sweat.

However, I am not struggling in my work so don't want to transfer classes as she is a really good teacher. I do want to find a way though to make my urges subside.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2012):

it called pheromones look on youtube science of attractions under smell i think they explain better. I pretty much like animals that everyone has pheromones that we send out. it the person pheromones that we are attracted to. maybe ur teacher particular pheromones type is what that you are attracted to. So when she her arm she pheromones scents is stronger

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2012):

DO NOT toy with her losing her job by advancing any further with this. Haven't you read the news? When ANY student/instructor relationship goes beyond even a thought, that instructor is usually fired and branded. Remember that first and foremost. Second, try and focus on something other than women until you get through the class.

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A female reader, ImmortalPrincess United States +, writes (5 October 2012):

ImmortalPrincess agony auntLike all crushes, as long as you don't feed it, it will eventually die - Especially if you find some girls your age to turn your attentions toward.

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A male reader, human_male New Zealand +, writes (5 October 2012):

human_male agony auntWhen you find yourself looking at her and fantasising about her make a conscious effort not to. Don't endulge your crush and it will pass more quickly.

It'll pass eventually, you just have to ride it out.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2012):

Its natural to have crushes, and they're ok as long as they don't get out of hand. As you said its not affecting your ability to get your work done, but just don't ever tell her how you feel, or find yourself going out of your way to be around her unnecessarily, and things should be fine, it'll pass in time naturally.

That's really all the advice I could give you, as it doesn't sound as though its getting out of hand.

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (5 October 2012):

aunt honesty agony auntI think the best thing for you to do is to just try and ignore your urges, I know that it is difficult but it is just your male hormones, hopefully in time you will begin to control them and forget all about them.

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