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*gyzee
writes:Hi everyone, my bf and i, have been dating for 4years now, we love, respect and understand each other totally. He is 32, i'm 25. He introduces me to friends as his wife, although he has never met wit my parents or even suggested it. He talks abt us getting married and stuff. But, how do i ascertain his commitment towards marriage. I've had suitors who were ready to see my parents and make their intentions known, but not my boyfriend. I've turned down several suitors because of him..he is aware of some instances. I'm i wasting my time with him? Reply to this Question
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reader, Ngyzee +, writes (13 May 2012):
Ngyzee is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank u so much for your helpful response...No one 300 and Starlights...i'll do just that. Tnx again.
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reader, No one 300  +, writes (11 May 2012):
Do you know his parents? I don't think you should wait him to say it first meet me with your parents, since this subject bothers you, and you have all rights to be bothered. It may turn out you misunderstood what he was saying, since you are convinced in each others understanding, and maybe you can't see the whole pic. Ask him, first time you have a chance, meaning, when he starts talking about marriage again, which shouldn't be difficult, it seems it happens pretty often.
Good luck :)
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (11 May 2012):
 Is he ready for marriage? Sounds like he will marry you when he is ready and not rush it!
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