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My man's just not doing it for me, help?

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Question - (11 May 2012) 3 Answers - (Newest, 12 May 2012)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hey guys, i'm seeing this guy and we've gotten to the point where we're having sex now. but the problem is that he's not very big so when we're doing it, he's the only one going away satisfied. is there something we could do to make it more enjoyable for me?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2012):

His penis size isn't the issue.

Your sexual inexperience, as well as his, is an issue. Get some books on sexual activity, read them, and work on it together.

Communicate with each other about your needs.

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (11 May 2012):

person12345 agony auntThe problem is almost certainly that most women cannot orgasm from penetration alone. Only about 25% can. If you want to make sex more enjoyable, work on how he can stimulate you in other ways, like oral sex or with his fingers. You can also add in your own fingers during sex. Most women just can't have orgasms during sex. It has nothing to do with him being big or not.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2012):

Perhaps a change of position during sex., say rather you be ontop??

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