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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:Okay do there is this guy. He's a junior in high school, as well as I, and he's very quiet and keeps to himself, but I absolutely adore him. I think he is very cute and I would love to get to know him better. Well my friend was telling me how this guy asked a girl out on a date. I'm not a cocky person and i have self esteem issues but I know for a fact i'm prettier than her (and i feel awful for saying it cause im not conceited at all). She told me she doesn't even know him, never met him or anything. On top of that there is a freshman girl who he hung out with who is probably the least prettiest female at the school and he hung out with her over the weekend. These females are not exactly skinny....or thick (and neither am I but i'm not fat either) A lot of people don't find him attractive at all, really, and i think he's only had one real gf. How can I get noticed by him? I want him to ask me on a date and I want to get to know him, but how? I'm a very shy person when it comes to cute guys or guys that i like so...how do i talk to him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank You I will try (:
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (12 May 2012):
 You just need to try and raise your confidence, if you don't make the first step then nothing will probably ever happen because he does not know how you feel. So you need to try and grab his attention.
Smile when ever he walks by and look at him.
Holding eye contact with him shows you have noticed him so do this.
Say hello to him whenever you see him.
Once you feel more comfortable and he has noticed you, then ask him how his day is going, or how he is.
Once you are even more comfortable start asking him questions to get to know him and to show him that you are interested. Simple questions like what kind of music is he in to, or what pass times he has ect.
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