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writes:I am divorced and been lonely for a long time. I am 50 and take great care of myself, therefore guys flirt with me a lot. I went online and have met nice guys, but no spark. I met a guy three weeks ago , he is 44 . We have gone out twice. We had a terrific time last week when we met. He said he wants to see more of me. I agreed, I did too. I have notnheard from him in a week. Does this mean he emotionally unavailable? Not interested. I do not want to waste my precious time on guys that are not available. If he call next week do I go? He lives an hour away. Btw- we kissed goodbye, that is all .Thank you for listening. I am trying to make healthy decisions.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2012): Keep dating other people. If he contacts you again, then meet up again. He may be taking it very slow. He may be dating other people too.
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (11 May 2012):
 Well there you go...he's spending time with his kids. I'd still give it time. You have made contact and he has responded albeit not the response you want. Wait another week and if he still doesn't call you, it might be one to chalk up to experience.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi , it is the OP. Thank you for your kind responses. I did text him last Saturday, two days after out date and asked him how his weekend was going. He promptly responded telling me all the activities with his kids. And to enjoy the weekend..
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reader, Tom Obler +, writes (11 May 2012):
 Hi, Yes, send him a Hi text in about 5 or 6 days. See what happens if he replies, responds etc. Two good meet ups sounds good so you are gonna have to just wait this one out until you send the text. Best wishes.
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (11 May 2012):
Give it another week...because there isn't really anything else you can do.
It is annoying when someone doesn't call and if he doesn't get back to you, it doesn't necessarilly mean he doesn't like you...it could be he has other issues to deal with.
As for being emotionally unavailable, it's too soon to tell.
Not all dates go further, even if they went well and men can be fickle pickles!!!
You could drop him a 'Hi how are ya' next week...if he doesn't reply, then brush it off and shout 'NEXT!!!'
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (11 May 2012):
 Depends. Do you want to go out with him again if he gets in touch?
A week isn't all that long. How do you know he isn't busy with work and other obligations, etc.?
Do you have his phone number? If you do, and if you want to, in another week you could give him a call to see how he's doing. Two weeks would show interest on your part without seeming to run after him.......
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