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writes: Need some help here.So we've been exchanging email's since nov and it went really well, we discovered a lot of things that we have in common from our nationalities to the experiences that we had. He was so sweet with me. He keep saying that im a very cute and sweet girl, that i have a very special place in his heart. And everytime he will be away for business trip he will tell me ahead of time and assure me that as soon as he got the time to go online he will reply to my emails. He always assure me that if he will not get to reply to my emails theres nothing to worry about.So here's the problem, We had our very first video chat it was great i get the chance to see him and vice versa. From then on i felt that my feelings for him grow stronger. After that chat i feel very anxious because maybe i said something he don't like and i can't help it so i send him email on that day too. And he told me that we had a nice chat he was happy looking at my face that he fell asleep thinking of me. Honestly i just wanted to know if he wants me to be his gf that's it. I really like him i feel happy when i think of him. Everyday at work i think of him and he told me that he thinks of me too. But i don't know what's the status of our relationship.Thank you so much for reading, its a little bit long. I really need some advice. Thanks.
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reader, missanxious +, writes (12 May 2012):
missanxious is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much for your advice guys. I think thats what i need to do for now. And let see..
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2012): Hello :) Honestly, I feel that you two are on your way to something special. It's still early though, so give it some time. I am in a similar situation... for the past 12 months and 5 days I have been emailing with a man who lives in the UK. (I live in the US). I love and care so deeply about him, and we are planning to meet in person this year. My advice to you would be to just be patient... if it's meant to happen, it will happen. I know how you feel when you are waiting for a reply to an email, it's like a mixture of feelings... anxious/excited and things like that. It took a long time for me to get my UK man to really open up. But patience is the key. Just follow your heart, and have faith that it will work, and be yourself. And if you really want to know what his feelings for you are, just ask him. Plain and simple. Best of luck :)
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reader, ArtemisLykiaosNightshade +, writes (11 May 2012):
Ok, from what I read here, you really like him and he likes you. As for a status relationship, wait, but not too long. Don't get too worried. Be patient and see what comes. I hope things work out for the best.
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