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*rtemisLykiaosNightshade
writes:Ok this is my first question. I love my boyfriend, we've been together for four months but lately I have been in love with another. And the feelings I have towards him is the same towards my boyfriend. I love my boyfriend and I don't want to cheat nor do I want to break up with him for the fear of how he will react emotionally.Please help. Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (12 May 2012):
 I understand that he has problems and you do not want to hurt him, but it would hurt him a lot less breaking up with him than it would cheating on him and having him find out, it could lose his trust in all girls and mess him up for a long time, so it's best to follow your gut instinct.
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reader, tsahpina  +, writes (12 May 2012):
noone can love two people at the same time. its contrary to the deffinition of love. so u are lying to yrslf or us. u love one or the other of them and most probably none.
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reader, ArtemisLykiaosNightshade +, writes (12 May 2012):
ArtemisLykiaosNightshade is verified as being by the original poster of the question Well here is the problem. They are both emo and my current boyfriend had some very rough times with bullies, fights, cyber bullying, etc. I just don't know what to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2012): if it's down to cheating on your bf or breaking up with him, both of which will hurt him obviously, then breaking up is what you should do. better to hurt him in an honest way than to hurt him through betrayal and disloyalty. it's also a sign that if you have the same feelings towards the new guy that you do for your bf, then that must mean your feelings for your bf aren't that deep to begin with anyway.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (12 May 2012):
You need to follow your own heart, please do not cheat on him. You need to make up your mind and decide who it is you want to be with. Don't be worrying about him emotionally, it has only been four months so he will get over it. But you need to make your mind up who you want and don't cheat as this can leave permanent damage.
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