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writes:I went to our employee christmas party,it was employees only so we were all sorta hanging and mingling with each other,well after a few drinks I was feeling rather comfortable with a coworker guy friend of mine. he and I actually flirted with each other at work for the past 2 yrs,but it was always innocent.I never ever imagined anything else, well we ended up sneaking away from the crowd. we went to the staircase of the hotel where the event was. well we kissed, and he caressed my body and kissed my breast, it actually felt amazing!He kept telling me how sexy and amazing I looked..(he had never seen me out of my medical uniform) and I was wearing a sexy black little dress...but it was very tasteful and classy. anyways after it was time to go...of course I started feeling uncomfortable because I have to work with him. he text me on Sunday to see whow how i was doing. I told him I was uncomfortable because I had to see him at work. also he is 8yrs younger than I am and he is super hot. he has a very built body, he works out often. my point is there are lots of women interested in him. plus he is a big flirt and he is a charmer.anyways I have a boyfriend and 1 child@ home and he is not married For about 2 weeks after this happened,he would flirt with me even more,and he would text me lots of sexy texts. he finally asked me out for drinks and we were texting about it secretly back and forth. well I was looking forward to going the following week,but the Friday before 974, a few of us went out for happy hour, he came along. well after everyone left I made it a point to stay last so i could be with him. although we did hug and had a quick kiss,he seemed distant? I don't know what happened,and just as I thought on Monday he said he couldn't make it Friday night because he forgot about an earlier commitment. well that was that! No more text,no more flirting with each other,i have no idea what happened he did a complete 360.can anyone relate,especially a guy,whats happened?
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reader, Latti +, writes (31 January 2012):
All the other Aunties ( & uncles) hit the nail on the head! He is a "Flirt" and this is what he does. Flirting is fun, its exciting & daring & it also requires NO COMMITTEMENT!
I know it feels good for someone hot, attractive & young to find you sexy....and I'm sure you are all that & a bag of chips, but your looking waaaay to deep into this. You don't want to come off desperate for attention. At the end of the day...his "360" did you a favor....it kept you from making a big mistake.
Maybe this can be a good opportunity to take a look at your current relationship. Are you happy? Bored? Maybe you need some "ME" time to work on yourself.
Just remember...if the shoe were on the other foot...how would you feel if your boyfriend made out with the girl at the christmas party...
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2012): Maybe he noticed you already have a boyfriend and a kid, or maybe he felt odd about having to secretly text you, or secretly kiss you and then have to work with you the next day.....
and perhaps he had the very same feeling you did and "started feeling uncomfortable."
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reader, TrancedRhythmEar  +, writes (30 January 2012):
 He is more than likely interested in another woman and is being woos and not communicating that to you. If you want to seek genuine interest from someone ill advise to not involve alcohol.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2012): I'm guessing something better came up! You said yourself he is hot, built, young, and single. There are a lot of hot young single women out there and no offense but you are older, taken, and have a child. You can't really blame him because it's what you did yourself!
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (30 January 2012):
 Maybe he had someone at home too? And he grew a conscience?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2012): You are a mature lady, don't really understand what's in your mind and what are your intentions? You said you have a boyfriend and a child at home? Instead of wondering why, putting your energy trying to figure out why he changed overnight, you should put thoughts in your relationship... I think that's far more important. You cheated on your boyfriend, you lied... If you want to pursue this man, leave your boyfriend. He doens't deserve the betrayal and I am sure he deserves better.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (30 January 2012):
 What does it matter, you have a partner and child at home. Maybe he knows about the boyfriend and child and isn't interested in cheaters.
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