| My boyfriend's fickle-mindedness is really bothering me! |
| | Question - (30 January 2012) | 0 Answers - (Newest, ) | A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I lived together for 1 year after we met and have had a LDR for the past year because of his job.He can't seem to decide on a plan for the future so we can work towards it and it is getting really frustrating and hard for me to take although I love him and want to be with him.One moment he'll say I must move up to his city next minute he's saying he's rather moving back to mine then talks about going into business with a friend who lives in another town or finding a job for himself abroad and taking me with him and supporting me.I don't know what to think or believe anymore so I have started to not even believe in him really anymore and that worries me.I even applied for a new job myself in my own town because I couldn't make sense of where we are going and I thought I had best invest time and effort into my own career because I can't just sit around wondering.Someone suggested I give it 6 months and in that time don't worry about it, get more hobbies and things that I do just for me and invest in myself more and review after 6 months which I think is a good idea, but do I tell him that is what I am going to do or just do it and not tell him that I have put sort of a time limit on this? The last time we spoke about it he said he is doing as much as he can and if I can't handle it I may be better of with someone else but he wants me to be with him and loves me and wants to get married. Reply to this Question
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