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writes:Hi am miss caribbean. I am in a relationship over eight Years and I hate the way my boyfriend treats me. he cheat on me for two years and I stayed with him but I can't get over it. it hurts what should I do it makes me cry in the nite his family keeps lieing for him when his out cheating he call me bad names but I love him he come for me anytime he want it break my heart can I move on what should I do he tells me bad thing about my self why do the ones we love hurt us
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reader, mntrstina30  +, writes (30 January 2012):
 Hello, I do totally understand what your going through hun,and I am telling you get out!! you deserve better,take time for yourself and heal,trust me it might take a while,but its worth it and your sanity,and in the end that guy will someday be sitting alone and wondering why did I mess up such a good thing,And you will be so happy and will have found that special someone,I know its hard.I went through a 8yrs abusive relationship myself-and his family would say to my face sometime oh honey you need to get away from him your better then him-and that was his own family and then they would go behind my back and talk smack about me-I treated him like a king and he pushed me so far,to the point where I started to even hit back one night-and thats not love- I even married him! I allowed him to control me-I didnt think I deserved any better..but I did and I do..So do you..I got out of mine,You can too..and trust me you'll feel so much better,it might hurt for a while,but you'll get over it,and you'll find your prince charming..:) I hope my advice helps you..you can email me anytime..* Hugs!
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reader, Eyespy17 +, writes (30 January 2012):
I am sure you are a beautiful woman. Find someone who will treat you beautiful and recognize your inner worth too.
Rip him off like a band-aid and then avoid phone calls from him and his family.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (30 January 2012):
 If you hate the way he treats you, and he cheats on you and you are hurting an crying why are you staying?
if his family lies for him (my ex husband's family did this) this means they condone his lies and when someone has approval to do something they will continue to do it.
he calls you bad names
he lies
he cheats
WHY do you love him???
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (30 January 2012):
 If the one you loves hurts you then it' NOT love, it's masochistic. Run
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (30 January 2012):
 If you can't get over it why not leave? He will not change.
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reader, thinkb4  +, writes (30 January 2012):
You need to think long term. Moving on will hurt, but it will be temporary. If you stay with this man, then it`s possibly a lifetime of being hurt.
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