A
female
age
36-40,
*ilary26
writes:I just found out I have chlamydia and I'm so afraid to tell my boyfriend! I had unprotected sex before him and I got together. I shouldve gotten checked before sleeping with him but I didn't. I'm so scared he's going to leave me! This is the hardest thing I've ever had to deal with! Might he stay with me?
View related questions:
unprotected sex Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, Hilary26 +, writes (1 February 2012):
Hilary26 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all! I told him and he understood and we are working it out! :-)
A
female
reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (30 January 2012):
 Let's put it this way, he's more likely to leave you if you don't tell him and has to find out thru symptoms.
If you tell him, you stand a chance of him staying with you.
...............................
A
female
reader, kouimet04  +, writes (30 January 2012):
Honey, you have to tell him! Honesty is the best policy. If you dont tell him and god forbids he finds out from someone else you might have told then that will be 100 X worse! Just explain to him that before you two got together, you had sex with someone else and got chamlydia. The good thing is that it is treatable. I think he will be understanding, and he will stay with you but only if you tell him right away! It's not like you maliciously tried to ruin his life, you made a mistake but it was before you two even started dating.
...............................
A
female
reader, Honeypie +, writes (30 January 2012):
 He might stay if you are open and honest, but you NEED to tell him, so he can get treated too or he might pass it back on to you or to other unsuspecting women. Which is a callus thing to do.
...............................
A
female
reader, Hilary26 +, writes (30 January 2012):
Hilary26 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI had unprotected sex with a guy I was dating, before my ex.
...............................
|
