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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Preferably guys' opinions- Friendship between guys and girls, What do you think?

This question has 38 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

13 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I know a lot of experts on dearcupid.org think men normally don't befriend girls unless they want something more from the girls - either sex or romance. So what do you guys think about this?Do you agree that a lot of the time, guys and girls befriend each other because of... (77 words)

Does he like me or is it in my head?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4513 days ago

13 August 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I hung out with this guy outside of school for the first time with 2 other girls, who one is his ex girlfriend, the whole time he kept looking at me and smiling at me. I don't know if I like him or not but I brushed past him a few times and sort of almost held his hand. ... (89 words)

Ever since the split My anxiety has went up! Will I ever learn to calm down and move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4513 days ago

13 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I was with my boyfriend for 6 years, I loved him very much but we have now been split for 4 months now, I feel like my life is crashing down, although the split was both what we wanted and I wouldn't go back I'm still finding it hard. I seem to be suffering with extreme anxiety ... (159 words)

He left me because I think he is scared of ruining our friendship, He would rather keep me as a friend, What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4513 days ago

13 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel like my life is ending. I've loved one of my friends for a very long time. We finally got together but he ended it as he found someone else he liked and also he said he thought it'd gone too far and anymore we could reck our friendship. To be honest, we;ve never had a ... (335 words)

I screwed up our relationship And I feel horrible about it, Does he still have feelings for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4513 days ago

13 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - We were engaged for 2 years. We met because his cousin is married to my cousin. I cheated on him over and over again. I put him through a lot,he cried and suffered a lot.I got pregnant by one of the men i cheated with. He still took me back with another mans child. I cheated ... (339 words)

Can someone just decide in a few hours if they want to be your boyfriend/girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4513 days ago

13 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - okay, so I'm a bit confused... Groing up and in college it was my understanding that guys are to wait a few dates and even a few months to ask a girl to be his girlfriend but 1) my ex boyfriend waited 2 days to ask me to be his girlfriend and my current boyfriend (???) a... (183 words)

My ex is torn/confused between me and someone else. What to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4513 days ago

13 August 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My ex of 3yrs has recently came into the picture after being broken up for 7 months. It started with her texting me on my bday. I kept it short and sweet and said Thank You and that was it. I just started dating someone (nothing serious) around that time and felt bad. However,... (773 words)

I'm going away to school and I am worried about leaving my boyfriend behind!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

13 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'll be 8hrs away from him and I'm scared that the long distance will break us up. I know how tough it can be from talking with other people about it and I don't want the distance to be the reason a great relationship ends. I've never had someone treat me so well or someone I ... (176 words)

I'm so confused. I want to love her, But she says she is a lesbian now!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4510 days ago

13 August 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I have this best friend i met for 3 years and have a crush for 2. We are very open with each other and are constantly each other's emotional back up. When she breaks up with another boyfriend, i'm there, when she finds out a guy she loved was already in a relationship, i'm ... (201 words)

I want validation that he is not cheating on me! If I asked to see his phone would that be wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4513 days ago

13 August 2012 (F) age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been seeing each other since May, but lately I've had this gut feeling he is hiding stuff from me. He's been acting a little shady in my eyes. Yesterday I asked him if he was talking to any other females. I excepted a no, but what I got was, "Why would ... (164 words)

I told him I loved him and I'm not sure what to think now, any advice would help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4510 days ago

13 August 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I know it might sound ackward to some of you but believe me, this is the truth. Since ive reached the puberty stage and really starting to experience feelings (that s when i was 14), i somehow fell inlove with a guy who s 2 years older than me. We used to school together but ... (365 words)

Am I being to insecure? Do you think he is thinking of me as more like a FWB?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4501 days ago

13 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Am I just being insecure? Been seeing a guy for a few weeks. At first I could tell he was really interested. I have known him for years as an aquaintence, through friends and always thought he is a really nice guy. I didn't know he liked me this way until we were at friend's ... (425 words)

How can I make going down on my boyfriend more comfortable for myself and him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4513 days ago

13 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 18 years old and my boyfriend likes when I give him a blowjob. But he's too wide to fit in my mouth. He keeps trying to push me down farther but everytime I try my teeth hits him and I choke. So what can I do to make the situation more comfortable with my boyfriend and me.... (58 words)

Can seeing someone too often break the relationship? Is this too often?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4513 days ago

13 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a question, Its always been something I've wondered myself in the past and also when looking and the whole concept of a relationship in general. However recently I feel im loosing my best friend whos a male because he now has a girlfriend as I barely see him :( He is 22 ... (398 words)

Is he jealous or doesn't want me to succeed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4513 days ago

13 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Could it be possible that he is jealous of me or is it because he doesn't want me to succeed? I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for the last 3 years, in all this time I have not accomplished anything. Do not have my license or college education, I did have a few... (169 words)

She has a DR. Jekyll/ Ms. Hyde personality, Am I crazy for sticking around?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4512 days ago

13 August 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have been together for 2 years now. I love her more than anything. (I know it's a lot, but i'm really trying to get this right. I potentially want to marry this woman.) I'm trying to find ways to keep the spark between us going. To describe her best, ... (582 words)

Is it possible to be in love this young? Or am I just falling hard?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4513 days ago

13 August 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm young, 15 to be exact, but there's this guy who is always on my mind. I've had feelings for him for maybe 4 months now, and I've never felt this way about anyone. He's cute, sweet, caring, so involved in his religion, though i'm not very religious, but something about him ... (120 words)

Does he have an interest in me and should I just wait?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4513 days ago

13 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - sorry to bather you with my question. I will be happy if you will find time to answer me. i think about everything too much and now i try to do everything right but im bit lost. I met a guy, great in the beginning (4 weeks ago), we had also great sx. but now he is distant ... (144 words)

Confusion whether it's an invite for a second date or not?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4512 days ago

13 August 2012 (M)

age - Hello i went on a date with a woman, she sent e,mail, i think date went ok . she sent, e,mail next day said , lovley day , lovley gent. next day i sent an e,mail saying i wanted to give her a kiss on the date , but i did not want too risk it on first date. i told her this ... (189 words)

Unsure of my colleague's intentions

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4512 days ago

13 August 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I am in a weird situation. My co-worker gives me all kinds of indicators of interest and for the longest time I didn't want to return any, because I nearly got fired from my last job because my supervisor wanted me. My current co-worker, started flirting with me, by commenti... (319 words)

Is it over or is he just sweating me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4509 days ago

13 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear all, Please advise. I Have had a very rocky relationship with my BF. We had an argument last week in which I told him he is selfish, which he is. Usually, when we fall out , things kinda get sorted wihtin 2 - 3 day, (it' usually me who initiates the sorting). Anyway, I... (403 words)

I have just learned my husband fathered another child during our marriage

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

13 August 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I hope someone can give me some advice! I have been married for 31 years and have a pleasant life! We have raised 3 well adjusted,talented and successful kids. My husband was my first lover and even thou he had a child out of wedlock, which he had supported and taken ca... (308 words)

I just found out my girflriend cheated on me three years ago

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4512 days ago

13 August 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, I have a situation that im in dire need of some other people opinions. I have been with my girlfriend for about 3 years now. Today I found out that at the beginning of our relationship when we were "exclusive" she was having sex with other guys, hooking up with oth... (170 words)

Boyfriend fondles himself constantly

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4511 days ago

13 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend has this habit of fondling his penis all the time. Even in non-sexual situations like when he's reading a book or just having a drink, he has his hand on his penis, fondling it or playing with it. It embarrasses me since he does it almost all the time and we've fo... (70 words)

Why do certain qualities make women more attractive to men?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4512 days ago

13 August 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - What is most attractive in a women? - Amazing at sports - Artistic and creative - Speaks another language - Plays guitar - Someone more intelligent than them For some reason, so many of my guy friends and my brothers go on about how when women have these qua... (123 words)

Why do people who claim to be happy still fantasize about others?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4501 days ago

13 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have sex 4 times a week, and I found out he had been using porn and pretended he was having with the women in the video sometimes, he claims he thought this was ok and that I would of been fine with it. I watched some porn myself but I always pretende... (209 words)

Should I be angry about this or just let it go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4513 days ago

13 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I really need some advice with this... My boyfriend left last week for... well, I don't wanna say "where" he went, but I'll just say that it's basically like he's a concert crewman. That's the only way I can describe it. He goes twice every year to set up this "concert... (492 words)

My boyfriend forgot about his plans with me and hung out with his friend instead

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4513 days ago

13 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly three years and he is my first love. The other day he said I could see him after my work so on my break that day I phoned him to see if he was still okay with it. Turns out he didn't remember about it and was at his friends. I was a bi... (159 words)

Why do men seem to prefer fellatio to intercourse?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4513 days ago

13 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I would like to know one of two things. why do men get so much pleasure out of a blowjob and less out of sex? I also have a few fantasies. How to I communicate this to my boyfriend of five years? Will he think I'm weird if I want to try out something new! Oh and he is also ... (78 words)

Never needed it before. What would be the reasons why, after all this time, I have now started to need lube to have sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4513 days ago

13 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid, I'm a 33 year old woman with a healthy sexual appetite and a boyfriend that I've been dating for a year. With my previous sexual partners I never had to use lube, I was always wet enough to have sex although I've never been so wet that a guy could slide right in... (213 words)

Are guys immediate about pursuing a girl or do they go away to think it through before they make their first move?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4513 days ago

13 August 2012 (?) age 41-50 - I am a very conscientious person and as a result I tend to over analyse and think my way out of things. when it comes to getting to know a guy I tend to hold back at first and observe his behaviour and actions rather than (like many women) pounce and get their claws in him b... (221 words)

Three months and he treats me well. But do you think his relationship with his ex could be a stumbling block?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4513 days ago

13 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 months. He's good to me, treats me well. I just have some concerns about his relationship with his ex. He works for her, plays sports with her, they have children together, and he's at her place a lot. He says there close frie... (125 words)

I hate that sex is always on my mind. How can I contain my interest in sex? Because I want to marry as a Virgin.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4512 days ago

13 August 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a type that hate sex and thinking about sex. Sex is always in my mind and i can't stop these thoughts when I start thinking of sex. Please what will i do to control my urge to think about sex all the time? Not only self sex, normal sex is involved. I think of it all the t... (88 words)

What can we both do to help encourage my libido to return? I feel like a horrible Gf to my Bf

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4507 days ago

13 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been going out with my boyfriend for 4 years now and I have completely lost interest in sex. We've tried different things to get my interest back but it hasn't worked and I feel like a horrible girlfriend. I still love my boyfriend it's not that....help :(... (49 words)

I am embarrassed about oral sex. Are there things I should be aware of?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4513 days ago

13 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I have a question about oral sex. I’m in a new relationship and my partner wants to give me oral sex. The problem is I feel embarrassed of him going down on me. I do want him to pleasure me but I’m worried what if he doesn’t like my scent or the look of my vagina. ... (99 words)

How should I deal with online friend who proposed to me recently, but was uncomplimentary about my face? Should we break-up?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4513 days ago

13 August 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My friend proposed me last week on friendship day. I'm 16 and he is 18. I accepted his proposal and we started dating. We know each other from 2-3 months. We had never met or talked before. I never showed him my pic before. I'm suffering from marfans syndrome because of it I'm ... (258 words)

Friend and I fell out. OK with me. But what do I do about a wedding we will both be attending? Don't want our issues to spoil bride's day.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4513 days ago

13 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My friend of twenty years and I had a terrible falling out. Now two years later, she wants to rehash everything, but I don't. Leading up to the "break up," we had grown apart, but I was taken by surprise with her decision to end it (via email). After the initial hurt wor... (378 words)

We broke up last week. Now he's talking FWB. What does he really want?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4513 days ago

13 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Heyy please help me out. I am confused and don't know what to do. A month ago me and my bf broke up. Didnot contact each other for like two weeks. And then became friends. Then we start seeing each other and he starts kissing me. I think we are back, so I ask him and he says... (147 words)

He has depression but is that any way to treat me? He's horrible and calls me nasty names.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4513 days ago

13 August 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My partner is and has suffered from depression for years (way before i met him but i didnt know about it for a while after we met.) his temper lately has been awful and he swears at me and calls me horrible names. he has even told me he doesnt want to live any more which breaks ... (273 words)

How can I successfully get to know this exchange student? I am in love with her but she seems not interested.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4506 days ago

13 August 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, Since the beginning of the year, I have developed a crush on an exchange student, who has been transferred to my college to study for 3 years. I do not have any classes with her, and whenever I see her - she is always with her friends. Coming from a hu... (565 words)

We've been together four years. Will I lose him after he joins the Air Force?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4514 days ago

13 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - dear readers.. i am in a crisis... i have been with a boyfriend for 4 years now, we have been through so much together.. ie cheating, separation etc but we have always come out on top.. now i am 18 and he is too, but in the year above me.. he is going to the airforce ne... (160 words)

Why would he do this? Do I try to get him back? My Bf broke up with me as he failed a grade.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4513 days ago

13 August 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So I've been dating this guy for a few months and we really love each other. The only problem is that he failed a grade and I get to go to the next grade. This is out conversation Him- "I think we need to break up. Well honestly, I failed math and I'll have to repeat. You'r... (399 words)

Sweet sixteen. Does he like me, or does he just want to get into my pants?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4513 days ago

13 August 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - OK, so i have been hanging out with this guy for the last 4 weekends, going to parties and such. his mate kept telling me to hook up with him, and that he hasn't been flirting with any girls since i've been hanging with him. the thing is though, i only talk to him in the we... (118 words)

He was like my dream guy. But I feel wounded by his actions. How should I handle this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4513 days ago

13 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy at a club. I liked him at first sight .I thought he liked me,too. he thought I am good looking and show me off in front of his friends. He was like my dream guy. I am afraid I can never meet someone just like him again. He does not like me at all. he ... (131 words)

I can't tell if this will work or not. Is he still interested in me since he ignored my text?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4513 days ago

13 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a guy on last Wednesday at a bar. We clicked and he got my number. Texted me the next day good morning asking me to hang out. I agreed but ended up blowing him off. Made up an excuse the next morning saying my phone died. Later that day we met up at a bar and had an a... (161 words)

He is 32 and I am 22. He flirts with me, a lot. Am I being played or is he trying to see what happens first?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4500 days ago

13 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have become attracted to someone and I know at least the physical aspect is mutual but I'm not sure of his intentions. He had a bad experience with another woman a few months ago and I just broke up with my boyfriend recently. I know neither one of us is ready for an act... (314 words)

The Ex looms large in our relationship. What can do to keep him in my life without pressuring him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4513 days ago

13 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy and he is amazing. We have gone on three dates and quite frankly I feel very comfortable with him. But we have one MAJOR problem. His ex gf. They dated for 5 years and broke up a month ago(he broke up with her but she's not over it). That's why he and I wer... (231 words)

Is it normal for a Gf to say sexy things in her sleep? Every night!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4513 days ago

13 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend makes sex noises in her sleep, it used to be every now and then, now its a nightly thing that wakes me up. Her history is quite promiscuious which probably adds to the paranoia, but we do keep a regular sex life. I know people can't control what happens in slee... (62 words)

Recently broke up with Bf. Who says he still loves me. Now his friend is interested in me. Is it too soon to go with the other guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4513 days ago

13 August 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I recently broke up with my boyfriend, but he says he's still in love with me. And one of his close friends, let's call him X , recently was left by his girlfriend, but still has some feelings for her. So this brings me to my problem: I've been talking to X quite a bit over... (129 words)

I'm five months pregnant but he made me walk 8 miles plus home. I love him but he stresses me. Should I give him up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4513 days ago

13 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. I am 17 years old and I'm pregnant. I am 5 months pregnant and the boy who got me pregnant was my boyfriend of a year. He has now decided to choose alcohol and drugs over me and my little girl. I'm not really sure as to what I shall do. He emotionally abuses m... (221 words)

Her boy friend is abusive. But she says I am trying to break them up if I talk about it. What can I do to help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4514 days ago

13 August 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear cupid About six months ago I was at a small party with my friend and her boyfriend. my friend and her boyfriend were having some issues. They had been constantly bickering throughout the night. They then went outside to sort things out alone, and my friends boyfrien... (256 words)

Can you please help me get him back and what indications would I see if he is coming back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4511 days ago

13 August 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - dear all .... it was in 2009 my friend hooked me and this guy up from a site because i told her i wanted a boyfriend so then me and the guy dated and when i was 14 i didnt hear from him no more and me and the girl the one hooked me up with him we arent friends no more . but the ... (181 words)

Why is my partner even considering her ex? Why did her ex show up now after four years of being away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4505 days ago

13 August 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I need help any body please. my problem is im with a great person who has helped me get through alot and i helped her through alot in the last 7 months. we have been dating since march and out of the blue her ex husband calls her asking for forgiveness and to go back with hi... (133 words)

I have been nothing but nice to her. What are the chances that she will start to like me sometime soon?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4513 days ago

13 August 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - There is this girl that I like who doesn't like me the same way back. (Classic, I know right?) I've been nothing but nice to her, and I try to smile and say hi when I see her. How much of a chance do I have of her feelings changing over the course of a couple months?... (59 words)

My old flame. We got back together. When he went back to his wife. When is enough enough? Is he lying to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4514 days ago

13 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm not sure where to begin. I apologize now if I'm all over the place, but I'm going to try.. I met this guy when we were 15, so we have a bit of history. The jist; Instant love, we were inseparable, I got pregnant, our parents forbid us to see each other, we were both ang... (770 words)

My relationship has hit rock bottom and to top it all off, I missed my period this month

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4513 days ago

13 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Last October, my bf and I broke up after 7 years together. It was the most difficult time in my life. A few months later, we started talking again and he begged me to get back together with him. He said he would change. I foolishly took him back and fell for all the lies he ... (284 words)

Was I in the wrong here and if so how do I make amends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4511 days ago

13 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, I need help with someone very important to me. I was texting my guy friend and he spelt a few things completely wrong, so naturally, I told him to learn how to spell (I was only joking )... But this is where things get messed up. He responded- "Okay fine be a bitch! You ... (107 words)

How does an atheist overcome inter-faith dating challenges?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4513 days ago

13 August 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I was wondering what your opinion is on inter-faith dating, specifically for atheists. How do I meet girls who are atheist or agnostic? Do you think girls care whether I’m atheist? My issue is that I really prefer to date girls who are like myself, atheist (or agno... (300 words)

Why am I not over my ex while he is clearly over me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4514 days ago

13 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm still not over my ex! my ex and i was together 16 months he found me on myspace we started out as just friends talking and hanging we started talking september 19th and started dating october 7th. he didn't ask me out and i didn't ask him out we just ended up being b... (449 words)

Does attraction fade and attachment grow the longer you're with someone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4514 days ago

13 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly a year now and I feel like the spark is gone. He means so much to me, and often tells me how he wants to spend the rest of his life with me, I would love to always be with him, he is my best friend but sometimes I wonder if th... (161 words)

Sexually frustrated for the entire 36 years of marriage

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4514 days ago

13 August 2012 (F)

age - All I want is to be sexually satisfied. I have been married for 36 yrs and have never had sex with anyone else not ever in my life. My husband and I are very close and love one another but, he does not satisfy me in bed. For many years now I feel I have been building a wall b... (278 words)

Can a woman be impregnated by precum?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4513 days ago

13 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hello just wanted to get a few opinions on my situation...I slept with both my bf of 3 years and some other guy around the time i got pregnant. just to be clear i hooked up with the other when i was single and we didnt use a condom he also said he didnt ejaculate inside me just ... (66 words)

But should I feel guilty about him paying me alimony still? When he seems to owe money everywhere? We are still married.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4513 days ago

13 August 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - hi agony aunt, i wrote on this site about my 48 year old husband leaving me for a 24 year old. I want to thank all of you for the advice that you gave me. it helped, although i have my good days and bad days. im still in that i wish he would wake up, even though its been 6 m... (211 words)

My life seems to have been swallowed up by the army

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13 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my bf have been together for a year and a half now, he's in the army and this military thing is still new to me. Whilst being together we've been through 1 tour, lots of excercises and an IED blast, i love him to peices but its hard! Ive changed alot to be with him, ... (260 words)