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writes:What is most attractive in a women?- Amazing at sports- Artistic and creative- Speaks another language- Plays guitar- Someone more intelligent than themFor some reason, so many of my guy friends and my brothers go on about how when women have these qualities, or hobbies it makes them so much more attractive to them....I don't understand, how is that possible that being good at sports, or speaking another language, being more smarter than you, or any other I mentioned can make someone more interesting and attractive to you!? Please can someone explain, preferably a man... Reply to this Question
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reader, 1sunshine  +, writes (14 August 2012):
 Cerberus said it perfectly!!!! So many girls/women are superficial. Smart guys love a girl with a brain! :D
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (13 August 2012):
 They offer a topic of conversation and shows a person has an interest. I think you shouldn't focus on the particular aspects of one particular thing, but instead focus on what all of these attributes have in common: an interest a person has for something.
People are attracted to people who have a passion, and interest, something they are deicated too or intrigued by. Something they can teach us, something that inspires us, and something that we can talk about.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2012): It varies from person to person to person OP but those things make a girl interesting, it means she doesn't just like shopping, watching romance movies, clubbing and listening to Justin Beiber like most women it means they have something extra.
Being good at sports is pretty awesome because it means they're fit and healthy, it means they have a skill, passion, drive and a competitive nature, it's also a topic a lot of us guys can talk about in depth because we like sports.
Speaking another language is exotic, it's an interesting and very useful skill to have.
Being smarter than us is not something most guys like as they find it daunting, which is a pity because I love smart women. My current girlfriend has a PhD and we can sit for hours debating and discussing lots of topics from history, politics to movies and books. As I said a lot of guys just want a "dumb broad" who looks pretty and can be easily manipulated and play games. I personally love a woman who can hold a long discussion and enjoy it about things other than nails, the Kardashians or why a certain girl is a bitch and what she said to this other girl who is also a bitch.
OP we are surrounded by media, songs, books, movies that constantly tell us that the most important things in the world for women are big boobs, fake tan, getting boys, being the best drinker, beauty products, being thin, falling in love, making babies and shopping for clothes, and unfortunately most women buy into that crap. When we guys discover a girl who is not one of the general masses who think all the above are the be all and end all of being a woman it's very attractive to us. We don't want a generic, barbie girl with no brain or mind of her own who obsesses about her make-up or how thin she should be. We want women who are creative, passionate, intelligent, driven, healthy and have a deeper appreciation of life than just the generic crap.
Basically OP we want a woman who is not the stereotype and is actually an interesting person.
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