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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

32 yrs old always failed in relationships

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

27 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there, I am a 33 years old girl who recently went throught a breakup. I was dating this guy only for 2 months but we had planned marriage and future. But due to some issue, he broke up with me. I am in a mess. I have always had failed relationships in which either guys wan... (168 words)

My ex told his sister that he would date me. How do I get it across that there's no chance for us again?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4467 days ago

27 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So here it goes.. My ex and I have not spoken much at all since I broke up with him last December. We had a roller coaster relationship, on again off again for almost 2 years. He was my first boyfriend. I did everything for him, I was the only girlfriend to date that didn't ... (725 words)

I'm worried that my masturbation habits aren't normal!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

27 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, okay I feel really embarrased but I really want some answers about this. I am 18 and I have been masturbating since I was 11. Over the years I have tried to stop and come to realize that I really only do it when I feel stressed, but it ends up continuing for months at a ... (198 words)

Should I not play a song about my ex since people might think I'm not over her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

27 August 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I've not been writing songs for very long, and I find it quite hard to find "inspiration", but I wrote a few songs about a breakup from a serious relationship, back when it happened (about a year ago now) and have only recently got into a situation where I can use/play the ... (96 words)

Was I wrong for telling a man that my b/f had a small penis?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4467 days ago

27 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i was so hurt when my boyfriend friday and said sone pretty hurtful things so i went on a dating site as i was angry and so lonely and i went on it and said about my boyfriend willy becausr i was so angry and he said my kids were mistakes am i in the wrong for telling ... (99 words)

Should I try out this potential blossoming romance, its long distance right now

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4457 days ago

27 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Three months ago I went to visit a friend in a different state. He introduced me to his friend and we immediately hit it off. I didn't expect much to become of it but we still talk (through text) several times a week. He has told me he is interested in me, and I am very ... (211 words)

Am I calling too much? Will he forgive me? I don't know what to do.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4467 days ago

27 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - 3 days were gone and he didnt call me , A year we are together never apart from telephone and calls, every time sayed to each other Ilove you and miss you , and qe really do, I think I have done e little mistake to telling him in the phone , I was doubt about something that ... (587 words)

He seems Perfect, I really like him. But a couple of things are bothering me, am I over analyzing things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

27 August 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Basically, there's this guy I really like. I met him at a training day at work, back in July, and he added me on Facebook and we'd been, speaking a bit and then we started texting. He's so friendly and kind, and I know this will sound odd - but he's genuinely perfect. He's ki... (190 words)

How do I deal with my BF's ex wife?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4466 days ago

27 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't really know where to start... I have been dating my boyfriend for almost a year and a half, we moved in together after a year and I have never been happier in my life. This relationship is the strongest, most fulfilling relationship I have ever been in (I've been ... (561 words)

What in the hell is wrong with my brothers and sisters?

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27 August 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I have two sisters and two brothers I am the second oldest I take care of my mom she lives with me so I am her care giver I applied for a job so I will be able to help my mom with bills.They talk about me behind my back but I am here with my mom 24 seven I asked my oldest ... (134 words)

Boyfriend is a cheapskate with me but can spend the money on himself. I'm sick of it.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4467 days ago

27 August 2012 (?) age 30-35 - My boyfriend is so, so cheap with me. Scenario: We don't usually ever go out to eat anymore. If we do, I'm the one who pays (he insists that I do) because he buys food for his apartment and shares it with me when I come over (even though he's really cheap with me at home too... (328 words)

He wants me to change my title from Mrs to Ms. Should I, and how do I do it?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4428 days ago

27 August 2012 (F)

age - My husband is very keen and really wants me to change my title from Mrs. to Ms. He says it is much more sexy. What do others think about this, as I am fairly OK with it, but not totally sure. How would I go about effecting this change? Thank you. Ms.Maureen... (65 words)

I want to ask a girl out that I've never even spoken to before, how do I approach this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

27 August 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So, at the moment I am researching in a chemical engineering lab at my university over the summer with one of the professors. Going great. Last week or so a girl was working in the lab space close to me on a different project. I reckon she is studying for her PHD. Thing is sh... (163 words)

I'm in love with my boss who is also a friend of mine. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

27 August 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm seriously at breaking point and I just don't know what to do. A female friend of mine, who is 12 years my senior, got me a job working for her. It's a great job and it pays really well. The problem is I'm completely and totally in love with her, before I started the job, ... (289 words)

How can we break the habit of having sex so much?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

27 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I've been with this guy for a 1.5 years, and we lost our virginities to each other about 4 months into our relationship. We're both Christians, and have often said we need to stop having sex - it can be up to 3 times in one day, and every time we see each other w... (89 words)

He can't ejaculate inside me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

27 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I've been with this guy for over a year and have been sexually active from about 4 months in - we were both virgins. Anyway, when we have sex he never finishes inside me, and pulls out - even if we use condoms. He's scared of me getting pregnant as we're both only ... (88 words)

Are his feelings starting to come back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

27 August 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I hung out with my ex yesterday. We went to the paint store. We had lots of physical contact, although it was not kissing and stuff. We flirted in a playful way, like I'd take his hat and he'd try to get it back and he'd put it in his pocket and I'd try to get it out by digging ... (317 words)

I'm having a issue getting the past out of my head.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4467 days ago

27 August 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm having a issue getting the past out of my head. This is long, but I think I need to tell the whole story to put it in perspective. My wife and I have been together for 15 years and married for 11. We were each others first loves, and were young when we got together... (946 words)

I think I've made a pretty considerable error in judgement within the last few months in regards to my living situation, and I'm looking for some advice on how to deal with it all.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4468 days ago

27 August 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I think I've made a pretty considerable error in judgement within the last few months in regards to my living situation, and I'm looking for some advice on how to deal with it all. I recently finished my undergrad studies and walked quite happily into a year of paid research... (410 words)

Is my boyfriend cheap or am I being unreasonable?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

27 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for 7 months now - and i think reality is really just hitting I used to gush about how perfect he is in every way – and I think the honeymoon is now over. One of my issues that I want to ask about, is regarding his cheapness. We hav... (518 words)

I crave dominance, I'm naturally submissive and want to explore the BDSM scene

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2862 days ago

27 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 18 years old and have been in a relationship for just under a year and a half. I love my boyfriend, and we've been through a lot as a couple - I've suffered from bulimia and self harm, and we've also had to deal with a lot of issues together. However, there's one thin... (165 words)

My boyfriend is on chat rooms, dating sites and looks at porn

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4467 days ago

27 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - im in a long term relationship, im sort of happy but my man keeps looking at porn and going on chat rooms and has put himselth on dateing sites. he will hide what he is doing on the laptop by clicking of iit when i stand up or go near it. I only found out what he was doin... (195 words)

I'm attracted to women, but don't "like" women - anyone else like that?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

27 August 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a straight, single, social, male, 24-years of age. I've been single for a long time now (last 'relationship', if you can call it that, was back in high school, which wasn't really anything) and it's got me thinking and others frequently asking, why? My typical answer has ... (334 words)

How can I get a visa to live in Turkey?

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27 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - my bf wants to marry me and he wants to take me in turkey to live with him and i apply for visa here in hk but for some reason the i cant complete the needed requirements to get a visa,my friend tell me to tell my bf to get me visa there in turkey,but he dont know where to get ... (69 words)

I got him off drugs, got him a job and now he leaves me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

27 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Where do I begin,my life's just been a roller coaster ride..when I was 15 I started seeing this guy from my class and we dated all through secondary and high school and rolled into the same university for further studies in new jersey..he was basket ball,and foot ball player so ... (471 words)

Why is my ex telling me when he has days off?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

27 August 2012 (F)

age - I have contact with an ex after a few years, talk on a regular basis. He dumped me!! my question is, why is he now giving me his work schedule, you know, telling me his days off? I never asked for this and we haven't talked about meeting up, so what would be the point of him ... (60 words)

The guy I fancy? Or the guy who fancies me? How do I act and what can I do when they are both in the room together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4466 days ago

27 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a problem. I fancy this guy at work,and do not know what to do. He shows some signs that he fancies me too The problem is that there is another guy who fancies me. Usually with that guy we joke around. I do not know what to do and how to react when they are both in a ro... (65 words)

Why do they do it? What's with this button pushing by guys? Its annoying

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

27 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is really awesome and we have a really close relationship we're even going away next weekend to skydive and stay out of town. (super excited!) But lately he's been purposely trying to push my buttons. At first when he did it it wasn't very often and it was kind of ... (501 words)

Is he not into sex because he's aware of what is going on around him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

27 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey, silly question. The other day I was having sex with my fiancé and right in the middle of the action he noticed my head was banging against the wall - nothing major, really, I could just feel the wall touching my head... I wasn't hurt or anything. Anyways, as he noticed ... (181 words)

How you heard of a long distance marriage? Do they work out?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4464 days ago

27 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello! So, I'm going to have to move away for work for three years. My soon to be beloved husband and I have been discussing this and we've figured out we'll be able to meet 10 days a month on average (between his days off and mine), plus three entire months in summer (he's a ... (127 words)

Would you accept the money or would I be taking advantage of my position as a soon-to-be-wife?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4466 days ago

27 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey everyone :) My mother passed away a few months ago leaving me a tiny apartment. The law in my country is such that I need to pay a heck of a lot of money in taxes in order to get hold of that apartment and a very high yearly tax in order to keep it. I know, it sucks! ... (259 words)

Is he being a typical rat?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

27 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I have known this guy for quite a few years I fancied him when I was 18 but he was more into my mate, fast forward 9 years I bumped into him in a club he was like you look great do you want a drink etc, gave him my numb he tried to get me to take him back to mine but I said ... (97 words)

I love my wife but I am not sure I can live with her because of her slovenly habits

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

27 August 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 20 years and each year my frustration grows. The basis of my frustration involves seemingly insignificant things which, over time, grow into issues for me. Let me give three examples: 1) Laundry My wife does not do laundry almost ever. Certai... (820 words)

She says she's content with lonliness! What does that mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

27 August 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So I asked a girl out and she said: "i mean your one of the best things that have happened to me, but as for now, in this time sequence, im not into anyone..." "save yourself for someone whos great and who will love you more than i could.. i just don't want no one.. im content ... (113 words)

Dad does not know if we are sexually active. But if Dad turns him in, will there be consequences if we were sexually active? My mom does not mind.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4467 days ago

27 August 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I am currently 15 years old and I'm dating a 21 year old I've known for 3 and a half years, we've been together for 6 months and my mom approves but my father doesnt. if my dad tries to turn him in will it work since Mom approves and he doesnt know if we're being sexually acti... (59 words)

I need to study and I don't know how!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4466 days ago

27 August 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I don't know how to study and i'm facing great exam next year, my problem is that when i'm studying i wont understand what i'm read, i will just be looking at the book, without understanding anything. please tell me what to do.... (43 words)

How do I convince my brother to give up on being a lawyer?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4467 days ago

27 August 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - My brother wants to be a lawyer I doubt that he can become a lawyer because he did so poorly in highschool. No one in the family has ever become a lawyer or doctor so why does he even try He signed up for community college. He study's all day and all night. For his dream... (159 words)

Why does he act so weirdly around me all the time?

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27 August 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - There is a guy that I like but his behavior is really confusing. I had caught him staring at me quite a lot over the course of several moths when we were together at our small group. I tried the whole striking up conversation thing with him and we had one or two good ... (403 words)

How can I move on when I see her everyday?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4449 days ago

27 August 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I keep seeing her everyday at univerity. She was the girl that I instantly fell for. The only girl that turned me down three times because I just wouldn't take no for an answer. It was to the point where she started to give me compliment about my looks and my accent. At first ... (388 words)

My boyfriend is a serial cheater but I love him. Is it time to place my dignity above love?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

27 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - The first two time I caught my boyfriend cheating on me, he apologised and begged me not to leave. After two years, I feel that he's getting bored with me. I just caught him cheating on me again. I love him very much. Should I place my dignity obove love? I know he'd do it ... (126 words)

He's married with 2 children. But WAS very keen on me, but now he's avoiding me. Should I tell the new guy about my (almost) relationship with Manager?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

27 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I met a guy (manager) of different dept. a few months ago. We became good friends. I told him about some tragedies that happened in my life. He was sympathetic and I started having feelings for him. He is married and has 2 sons. I guess he felt that I was vulnerable a... (239 words)

It was his Ex who caused all these problems. Yet even though he knows that he blames me. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

27 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of over a year has changed lately. He is not now how he used to be. He was once a lovely and caring boyfriend. Now he is not like he used to be. He started changing his attitude when we had this big fight the night before I was suppose to catch a flight with him... (553 words)

Years ago he was my foster Dad. No blood relationship. No legal adoption. Can we now legally have a relationship? I am pregnant to him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

27 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I grew up in foster care bouncing from home to home and shelter to shelter. When I was 16 I was placed with foster parents that were very close in age 23 and 25. I remained there until I aged out of the system at 18. While living there my foster dad and I never crossed any ... (254 words)

He's engaged, his fiancé is pregnant, but WE have feelings for each other. What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

27 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a friend who is engaged to be married but is very unhappy in his relationship. We have recently discovered that we have strong feelings for eachother. The issue is his fiancee is 5 months pregnant (unplanned). We would never act on those feelings for eachother while ... (124 words)

We broke up after five years. He's dating again, and I'm having a hard time handling it,. Need some advice please!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4469 days ago

27 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend(now EX) and I have been dating for 5 years. The past 4 weeks have been rough, hes been shady and Ive just felt like he was up to something. I guess my gut was right because he was hanging out more with one of his guy friends and today I found out he is DATING AND ... (484 words)

How do I get him to agree to talk to me without making things worse?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4469 days ago

27 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have got my date mad at you and kind of backing off from me now since last Friday night. I have sent him texts yesterday and he told me he accept my apology and he is sorry too. Somehow I am still so frustrated as I feel like to see him in person and have a nice time and ... (149 words)

How do I convince my friend that her ex still likes her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4469 days ago

27 August 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey everybody, so my friend was with the guy and they broke up a while back. but they text everyday. He wants her back obviously, he says it to me all the time. I am trying to make my friends see that they are not just friends and he most definitely wants to be more but she is ... (128 words)

When I'm out with my boyfriend, sometimes he acts like he isn't in a relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4469 days ago

27 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Last night my bf and i went out with some friends of him... i didn't feel comfortable because his (girl)friend was with other 2 girls and other guy, this girls were kissing each other and dancing very sensually ... i know he like it.. but later that night one girl was sitting ... (213 words)

What will my first day of high school be like?

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27 August 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - tommrow is my first day of high school and i really wanna whats it like and boys and girls act please sombody help im really nervus and what should i do if a boy asked me out do i say yes no idk why becasue i have never had a boyfriend before and im kinda scard ... (58 words)