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Archived questions from: 23 August, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Do you think I overreacted?Should I just stop talking to him?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4497 days ago

23 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a girl.I've known this guy for 9 months and we were always good friends.We talked about almost everything - music,piano,our own crushes....etc. I always saw him as my really good friend cos he was such a caring,respectful(he always says sorry to ... (712 words)

Should I wait for his return home after one wonderful night?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

23 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all. For starters I just got out of a 2 year relationship 3 months ago and not to be tooting my own horn but there are a lot of guys out there trying to talk to me. Im not exactly looking for a relationship but if one seems to happen then so be it. Last week I was ... (550 words)

Can our past relationship influence our sexual tendencies?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4503 days ago

23 August 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Let me explain my situation first. I am a 27 years old male, I’ve only dated one girl in the past and I was 22. At first, our relationship was great. Our sexual relationship was great! On some occasion while having sex, we imagined as if she was doing it with some of the people ... (284 words)

Did I push her away because I showed interest?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4500 days ago

23 August 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Met a girl before summer break.. went on a few dates, things were great, but don't know each other that well yet. While we've been apart we've been texting but she's gradually lost interest in me.. says she doesn't think about me anymore, but wants to get to know me once col... (158 words)

Boyfriend is putting his dog before our relationship!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4497 days ago

23 August 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - This situation is very complicated. Myself and my partner have been together and split up again several times in the past. Each time we split up we have got back together and this time I am totally ready to put 100% into making our relationship work because I am sick of ... (412 words)

Do I stay and wait for b/f to grow up? Or realize its over and hit the road?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

23 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello Agonies. My boyfriend and i have been in a 3yr and 6mo. on and off relationship. Throughout this relationship he has cheated multiples of times, constantly lies and mistreats me, no communication whatsoever, doesn't try to make things right anymore, disrespects me, ... (298 words)

His behavior has changed, and now I'm confused.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4503 days ago

23 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi can you please give me some advice/guidance me and my ex had been together just touching 6 years and Planned to Marry next year that all changed two weeks ago he has seemed depressed for a few weeks strained from work snappy arguments not spending much time together, he was ... (194 words)

Pregnant and scared, I'm making the wrong decision.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4502 days ago

23 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 7 weeks preganant and very scared. I am due to have a termination on saturday and am very confused if its the right choice. I am in a stable relationship. When i found out i was pregnant i thought i would be happy but i have become more and more deprerssed and worried ... (128 words)

My girlfriend wont kiss me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

23 August 2012 (M) age 26-29 - Hi every one My GF and I were dating for 2 years I love her and She loves me.... Every thing seems be great but I've got one prob with her : whene I try to kiss her she refuse and she tells me she's not a bit** So I need ur help by telling me how to tell here She'll not be a ... (94 words)

Trouble being on top.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4502 days ago

23 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend asked me to ride him, i had never done it before but i was keen to give it a go, but i couldn't actually move once i was straddling him. I don't know if it was because he was thrusting too, but i couldn't do anything. I felt really bad because i wanted to do this ... (78 words)

Why can't my family just be happy I found someone who makes me happy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

23 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I'm 18 and my boyfriend is too. we met online for a year and we saw each other this summer in the US. we were together for a month at my brothers house. My brother would always critisize him on the way he eats, the things he does, if hes unorganized, that he hasn't ... (416 words)

I've had sex twice, and both times were painful. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

23 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I had sex for the first time yesterday with my boyfriend. My question is that it wasn't pleasurable for me. I expected that though because it was my first time, but we did it twice, and i still found it uncomfortable. Is there anything i can do to make it more pleasurable... (61 words)

Is it worth continuing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4502 days ago

23 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf of 3.5years has a job that takes up most of his time. Between June-start of August I saw him for a total of about 4 hours. Now he's freed up for about a month and a half. We have spent 2 weekends together and now the next two he's busy with family. i almost want to give ... (74 words)

I'm having inappropriate sexual thoughts. How can I stop this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

23 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Currently I have been extremely turned on and have been craving oral sex. My boyfriend is the best I had ever had, but recently I have been having awful thoughts. For some reason I am craving being gone down on by someone with full lips and I cannot explain why. (Could be d... (179 words)

Why am I starting to feel like this after being broken up 5 months?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4503 days ago

23 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't really know what is going on with me, my ex and i have been broken up 5 months after being together 16 months we have a 1 year old. and he got married to a girl he was dating a month. anyway i've never felt this way EVER! yesterday i had went to my community college to ... (271 words)

Does something seem wrong with the relationship? Why do people keep saying we need to break up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4503 days ago

23 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Beginning of this year I got out of a relationship with my now ex-fiance. We lived together for 6 months after we broke up because he had a shattered wrist that required surgery and wasn't able to go back to work till it healed. Once he was better he moved out into his own ... (646 words)

My husband has been sneaky lately and I found a flavored condom in his pocket that he blamed on our son!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

23 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Lately, my husband of 9 yrs. has been a little sneaky. he talks to all kinds of women, first of all he's a photographer OK. Now it's one particular friend that he tells her he loves her. Just recently, while I was doing laundry,a flavored condom (chocolate to be exact)fell out ... (126 words)

I love him but he's selfish and lazy. Why does he behave this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

23 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I love my boyfriend, but his habits of selfishness and laziness are starting to really eat at me. While he constantly reminds that he loves me, I don't feel he does or cares about me. He doesn't seem at all concerned with what I might need or want, and everything seems devoted ... (407 words)

Handcuffs and restraints from Ann Summers: will they fit my bigger wrists?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4502 days ago

23 August 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, i need some answers from people who have used them, please.... I want to buy some handcuffs from ann summers, just the normal fluffy ones, and possibly some restraints. However, i do not have small wrists, they are more like a mans wrists (being that the man is not small... (108 words)

My friend seems to resent me for completing my post grad. How do I deal with this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4500 days ago

23 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. I have this friend who I have known for about ten years. We were in school together but went to different universities. However, we remained close and shared the same group of friends. In recent years lots of our friends have moved away from our home town ... (393 words)

Will having a threesome with my wife ruin our relationship? She's the one who brought it up.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

23 August 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - My wife asked me to have a 3sum with another female. I'm up for the idea but I thought about it more and I don't know how it will change our relationship, am I not pleasing her enugh, she orgasms at least three time every time we have sex. What she is looking for is another ... (110 words)

My boyfriend likes to look at my sister's fake boobs, but when I said I wanted fake boobs he flipped out!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

23 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so short story.... My sister had tons of ummm "sexy" pictures on her computer.... Nude, and she has fake boobs..... Well my boyfriend of over a year decides to be a dick and goes on her computer and emails himself some of the nude photos!!! I found out a few months ... (222 words)

I've been hurt so badly in old relationships that I don't want to approach girls anymore. How do I overcome this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4503 days ago

23 August 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, where do I start? Well, I've been hurt a lot in relationships and now I find myself hesitating before stepping up to a girl that I find attractive. I just think of all the negatives and how there's not enough reason for me to actually ask her out. I've seen many girls ... (198 words)

Did I mess up, or did she just use me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4432 days ago

23 August 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - So, there is (or rather, was) this girl with whom I am platonically infatuated with whom I had a previous rapport with (i had actually asked her out once before with disastrous results) whom I asked out on a date about a year or so ago...after a number of dates (were i pampered ... (1034 words)

Is she giving me a second chance after being too jealous? Or letting me down gently?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4502 days ago

23 August 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I didn't think it was a real possibility when people tell you to just meet people doing things you like when all I am is a computer gaming nerd but I met a girl in a video game about a year ago (maybe that's sad, who knows?). We hit it off and she became my best friend. A few ... (284 words)

Bf saying picture of porn with girls that look nothing like me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

23 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello guys:) Recently, I've been having a few problems with my boyfriend, not major ones at all, just little ones. Now, I found out he watched porn because I went to type in youtube on his computer and it came up with a porn site in his history underneath the seach thi... (380 words)

My friend's boyfriend is jealous and controlling. How do I help her see the light?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4502 days ago

23 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey my friend wants to know what this means, she and this guy knew each other for 10 years, since then they liked each other but was to scared to say it until 2 years ago when they finally told each other. so they started something and its been 11 months now but he's really ... (171 words)

Old friend keeps blowing me off for her new friends!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

23 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - This isn't a relationship q, but about friendship and I would really appreciate the input. I have been best frinds with a girl since I was 12, and we are now both 26. She used to be quiet and shy, but the past couple of years she has been coming out of her shell, and makings ... (168 words)

I need to feel wanted again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

23 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, where do i start? My boyfriend and i are having a bit of troublein the bedroom department. When we first met we would have sex up to 5 times a day, but because we lived apart while he was in uni we would only see eachother for a couple of weeks every month or two. We both ... (484 words)

When a man treats his woman well: When did it become okay to commit or marry but then show no interest in a sex life with your man?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

23 August 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I am talking about women in serious relationships who act like their man has no right to expect a decent sex life from them. Before you jump on me with the claws out, please listen to what I am saying and what I am not. I am not saying anything extreme like “women have... (335 words)

How can we move on from being lovers to being friends? We are going to be separated by such a big distance in December

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4501 days ago

23 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, A few of weeks ago this guy and I ended things (on mutual terms), because I was leaving the country where we both live as expat and student. He will leave to go back to his country in Dec. It started out as just a fling, but we saw each other and talked to each oth... (417 words)

I love my husband but his habits of selfishness and laziness are starting to makes me feel unimportant and undervalued, and is putting me into a state of depression.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

23 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I love my husband, but his habits of selfishness and laziness are starting to really eat at me. While I feel he loves me, I don't feel he cares about me. He doesn't seem at all concerned with what I might need or want, and everything seems devoted to him. He will get as... (530 words)

Kind empathy please. How can I stop my parents pressuring me into marriage?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4502 days ago

23 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi dear cupid..i m 18 yrs old. my question is about my family..ok here's my question Daily my parents are forcing me to discuss marriage..they deal with me like a puppet..whenever i put my views my father started abusing and my mother she looks at me like an enemy. Everyone i... (244 words)

He is a true gentleman. Am I worrying too much due to past experiences in relationships?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

23 August 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I have begun a relationship with a wonderful man but need advice on a small matter. Every time we have a date, he will walk with me to my nearest transport stop - whether bus or train - before saying goodbye and going on his journey home We've been on enough dates for me... (229 words)

I'm considering leaving my family for my boyfriend because my parents have made it clear that they are not going to let me be with him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

23 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This is quite long, but I really need help so please read it! I am from the UK and live with my strict Indian family. My boyfriend of 1 and a half years was caught with me by my parents a couple of months ago. At first they told me that they woould try to get to know h... (327 words)

Do I give the LDR a chance? Am I being too pessimistic? Or could this work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4502 days ago

23 August 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - So here I am one more time asking for advice, so far it has work great the last times. Long story short, Im 34, she is 21, I live in North America, She lives in west Europe, we meet thru friends and have been dating for about three months, she was staying with me at my place an... (784 words)

I'm done with dating at moment. But how do I seek or find someone willing to do FWB?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4504 days ago

23 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - What is the best approach to finding a FWB? I'm not trying to be crude, but I'm done with dating right now and I really just want some good old fashioned sex with no emotions involved. My problem is, I've never done it before. Sure I had sex, but those were with guys I was da... (112 words)

So I've 'Given him a lot to think about'? What's that? A ploy to give me hope? Or goodbye?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

23 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I met this guy at my college in April, and we've been talking and hanging out for the last few months. Things have been going well, and over time I developed feelings for him. I decided to tell him how I felt a couple days ago after we saw a movie. He told me that he ... (417 words)

What things really matter and really impact on a true relationship and dating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

23 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Does fighting matter in a real relationship? Does sex matter in a true relationship? Do money matters also affect a true relationship? Please i ned your help dear cupid. And what's a good age for a gal to be to start dating?... (43 words)

I have a fear of tattoos

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

23 August 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I wanna ask you people about somethink that bother me about 4-5 years. I have tattoo-phobia.. I hate tattoos. I'm just like, scared when i see person with tattoo, especially someone close to me. I'm afraid that my best friends will someday put tatto on their body. Oneday I ... (184 words)

Why am I so vulnerable after my break-up and how can I not show it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4503 days ago

23 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hi guys im pleased to say that im finally on a gud path to getting over my ex,bt its strange to me because it really took me six months to decide to be without him,now i feel like it was the best thing i could have ever done for myself,it gets lonely at times but i still feel ... (134 words)