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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Do I deserve someone better? Or does he?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4516 days ago

9 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi ,I was with my boyfriend for 2 years when he cheated on me I was that angry that I left flat 2 days after as I find out I am so jealous of him having another and I love him. I was jealous that he liked another girl as they been working together. After one month we have got ... (435 words)

I broke up with him over his friend. Was it the wrong thing to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4516 days ago

9 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi - I need some advice as I don't know if its me that insecure So my bf and I have been together 8 months, and everything is good, only recently, he got in touch with a girl on FB. We share a FB page, so I saw the messages too, and they seemed innocent and he spoke about m... (286 words)

What does it mean when a friend tease and then say he is just kidding?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4516 days ago

9 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a friend for almost two years now. We have a good friendship and we trust eachother alot. He is just the one but I never had the courage to tell him. The problem is that I can not understand what goes with his mind. We have strayed twice because he realized that I liked ... (420 words)

He makes me feel like shit but some days I feel as if I want him back, What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4517 days ago

9 August 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my now ex boyfriend stuart broke up a month ago. We were together for almost 6 months I really was in love with him and still am. We said that we would be friends but I feel he is making it really difficult for me to be friends with him. I babysit for his baby brother ... (215 words)

How do I become for social?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4516 days ago

9 August 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I split from my ex around 8 months ago and since i havent been myself, i know i need to start spending more time with my friends again and be more sociable. Any ideas on what we can start doing? i have the usual, cinema, meals, amusment parks but most things cost money and the ... (101 words)

Why is it painful when I orgasm during my period?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4517 days ago

9 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, soo, i'm one of those girls who refuses to have sex while she's on her period. of course, just because i refuse to do it doesn't mean that i never get the urge to do it. whenever that happens, i satisfy the desire by masturbating (through clitoral stimulation). he... (150 words)

Will he ever be the boyfriend I want him to be? Or should I just find someone more mature?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4516 days ago

9 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure if I should break up with my boyfriend. He's 22 and I'm 25 and sometimes finding him quite immature. We've been together 6 months (officially 1 month) and we both work in a school but I have a summer job at the moment. During the holidays he has just sat about ... (347 words)

How can I stop being jealous of my friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4517 days ago

9 August 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm having friend trouble again, I keep getting jealous of one of my closest friends. Well she keeps saying how men always stare at her and I understand that a lot of men stare at her, she's gorgeous. But I know I'm ugly and I get zero attention, I've told her this but she ... (146 words)

What kind of topics are good to talk about with a girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4513 days ago

9 August 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I was wondering. I have a girl that I like. She is a peer in my university. We were in the same class this summer. What kind of topics are good to talk about with a girl? I dont know much about her such as her likes or dislikes. I have no concerns about being myself. I ... (84 words)

Is he playing games with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4517 days ago

9 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I went out with my ex last year for two months. I didn't know why he broke up with me at the time, as he just stopped contacting me without any explanation. We bumped into a few times after that last year, and asked how each other was. I have a new boyfriend now, who i have ... (843 words)

Please help me, should I stay friends with him or move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4517 days ago

9 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I knew this guy for a month, I won't say we are close. The first time i met him we were both at a party and we were both intoxicated so we figured "lets have sex" so we did. The next day it was awkward so i thought it was a one night stand, however he added me on facebook the ... (208 words)

In the five years we've been together, she's not ever given me so much as even a card, for birthday's, anniversary, or any other special occasion. Do I have a right to be upset?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4514 days ago

9 August 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - We've been together for 5 years now, and during those 5 years I've not recieved a thing from her - Not for birthdays, Xmas', Valentines or even Anniversaries. Now I'm a romantic and try not to be materialistic or superficial about anything, let alone special occasions, but y... (205 words)

Should I talk with her again or move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4517 days ago

9 August 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - i am 20 year old college student. i am not in a relationship. when i joined my college 2 year ago i met with a girl. we became very good friends . for 1 year we were good friends but the class mates used to tease us that we are bf n gf and not friends. i avoided them and jus... (162 words)

Do you think he regrets breaking up with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4517 days ago

9 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex-boyfriend broke up a nearly seven years relationship (about 4 months now) because he was tired of everything, including me, two days later said that want to do his things and be with his friends, a couple of days later said that it was because with our jobs like that we ... (661 words)

Am I mean? Should I share more of my money with my girlfriend?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4507 days ago

9 August 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 32, my girlfriend of four years is 27. I have a degree and believe in hard work and applying myself to achieve my goals and live well. My gf is not financially motivated and does not want to progress at work, she just wants to get by which is fine. My annual salary is ... (720 words)

My boyfriend won't make time for me, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4516 days ago

9 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I need your help on this... So me and my boyfriend of 4 yrs have had our ups and downs... We live in a country where you are not really supposed to "have" boyfriend.. So it is a little bit hard to go "out" on dates... We usually see each other 2 times a month, every 2 weeks... ... (318 words)

Did he just use me for a booty-call?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4516 days ago

9 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hellow all, First of all, English is not my first language so please understand me ! Now I am in usa just to learn english but I am going back to my country soon. I met a guy from my cousin's b-day party. I liked him at first sight and we had mingled I guess. But I... (245 words)

Facebook messages have him convinced I'm cheating

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4516 days ago

9 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend got into my facebook account and saw messages off other guys. I didn't reply to them but I also didn't tell them to go away or delete the people off my friends list. A few weeks after tha he asked to c my phone but my inbox and outbox were empty because it had ... (283 words)

My housemate keeps teasing me...does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4516 days ago

9 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been living with four boys for two months and one of them has a real problem with me. For the first week he was really nice and interested in talking to me all the time, and very friendly. Then something changed and he started to act cold as if I am not in the room, ... (234 words)

Now that we've broken up he's doing all the things I wanted to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4517 days ago

9 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I wrote on here about me and my boyfriend of nearly two years. Well we spilt up about two weeks ago now and I've got a question that not even he can answer and using know what to feel. Whilst we were together, I asked him if we could go out and go places and t... (148 words)

How can I remove these walls for good and deal with this fear of getting hurt or even rejected?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4516 days ago

9 August 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - If you asked a girl how she would describe me in three words, she would probably say "Mean, distant and uninterested" To be honest, I'm probably only two of those things. Regardless of how interested I am though, I manage to pull all of those qualities off. To be honest, ... (579 words)

Why do I always get treated so badly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4517 days ago

9 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help me. I dont know how to be with a boy...When ever i have a boyfriend, the boy always cheats me and leave me. I just dont understand why. When i have a boyfriend i stick to one boy only...i dont go flirting with other guys but still boys always cheats me. Please tel ... (67 words)

We broke up. So why can't I just "unfriend" him in my head?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4517 days ago

9 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I've just broken up with my boyfriend of 3 years because we couldn't get over problems of fighting about mainly money (he didn't seem to want to put in an effort to make any) and he had a problem with drinking. He was not abusive and is actually kind and caring but I coul... (117 words)

He is generous but still has not said he loves me. Does he love me or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4517 days ago

9 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I was always under the impression if a guy spends his money on you then his investing in a future. My boyfriend of 8.5 months is very generous. He books lovely holidays, hotels, takes me out to dinner etc but still hasn't said he loves me. He has even booked a holid... (131 words)

A misunderstanding at the weekend. Should I get in touch with him??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4517 days ago

9 August 2012 (F) age 41-50 - Is it ok for women to text guys these days or should we still play by these silly rules? I have been dating someone for about 2 months. We all went to a group music festival at the weekend and we hardly saw each other until the end when we tried to go to a club to finish t... (186 words)

Attracted to her, but don't want it. How do I stop myself from wanting more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4517 days ago

9 August 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Over the last year or so, I've gotten a little bit closer with this girl I work with. We get along really well, and have a fun little dynamic between us. I don't see or talk to her outside of work, or anything like that, though. I think I'm starting to "like" her a little m... (251 words)

Does it mean anything that he takes Forever to reply to my text messages. Is this indicative of anything?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4517 days ago

9 August 2012 (?) age 30-35 - My question is REALLY starting to get to me. Been texting this guy for a while now, he suggested we swap numbers etc. We like to flirt and the like and it seems as though something may be starting between us. Our texting is conversation about various topics strewn over d... (79 words)

He says that I am all he wants in a partner and he wants to settle down with me. So why no planning to make it happen? Am I over anxious?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4517 days ago

9 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I would just like some advice on how to figure out if my boyfriend is really meaning it when he says I am all he wants as a partner and he wants to spend the rest of our lives together. He says this a lot but even more if he's had a few drinks (I don't mean he has a drink ... (114 words)

Family? when? Am I destined to be alone and never know the joys of being a father?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4517 days ago

9 August 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - so I am not sure whats wrong with me. I will be 41 next month and have been single over a year now. before that I was single 5 years and so on and so on every single woman I have dated has cheated on me, lied to me stole from me abused me physically and mentally. Am I desti... (110 words)

His Mother and sister interfere. Why does he allow it? Why isn't he sticking to our original plan?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4514 days ago

9 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I really don't know where to start I've been stressed, depressed,hurt,and confused OK, SO I have always had problem with my husband's mother and sister from the very moments I started dating their son/brother and from the moment my husband(boyfriend) at the time moved to my... (869 words)

My boyfriend is sloppy, controlling, rough and forceful sometimes. Would that be the reason I have lost all desire for sex with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4517 days ago

9 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 and been in a relationship with my boyfriend for over a year. The problem is I have lost my desire to have sex with him or any overall need to be intimate. My boyfriend and I decided to lose our virginity to each other a month ago and everything was fine it was some... (183 words)

Things have gone from bad to worse since I told the truth. What should I do now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4517 days ago

9 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I hurt my husband badly and I apologised for that, but his reaction makes me feel like withdrawing my apology. We have been married for a year. We dated for two years before marrying. It was a terrible time for me. During this time, I did the begging for the relation... (551 words)

Family situation affecting my Bf. How can the issues be raised? A little girl is suffering.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4517 days ago

9 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, OK so some background: My boyfriends 28 year old sister "X" lives at her parent's house after losing her house about a year ago. She lives there with her four year old daughter. she has spent the last 12 yrs going to communitity college to finally qualifiy for an A... (806 words)

What is your personal definition of love?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4517 days ago

9 August 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Recently, a few of my classmates and I have a talk with this male teacher. He is 33 this year and neither married nor dating anyone. So we asked why isnt he getting married. And he suddenly got really quiet and just said softly "what is your definition of love? When your ... (119 words)

Will I ever enjoy having sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4517 days ago

9 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone..i know this question has been asked like q million times but ladies i just want to know how was your first sexual encounter..so i was a virgin until yesterday and it really hurt ..i didn't enjoy at all. am just wondering if i will ever enjoy having sex ..thanks ... (55 words)

Why am I always longing for more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4517 days ago

9 August 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - So, what is going on? I am married, have a faithful wife, and I am still longing for more? What for? Not necessarily sex. I know that. Attention? Partly. I had a crush on a French girl for a long time; had to fix it, went to see her, confessed, hoped my feelings would be at ... (162 words)

Do I just have a libido that demands variety or is this a relationship issue?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

9 August 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been dating for almost 7 months, and seeing each other exclusively for around 10. We are a really good match and my feelings for her are generally very strong. But every few days or weeks she gets weird, very distant or emotional. Or even if she is ... (154 words)

Pro's and con's of plastic surgery?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4517 days ago

9 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - What are the pros and cons of plastic surgery? I have more than enough money and I'm thinking of getting liposuction in another country. I've done some research and they can perform it on me even though I'm not overwieght. I'm average but much chubbier on the thighs and tummy ... (78 words)

I think my boss likes me! What should I do? Because I think I like him too!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4517 days ago

9 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have just started working at a small company and I am the receptionist. Every guy there was flirting with me since I got there but then they are all young and really friendly. But someone has been putting a bit more attention to me than me, my boss. I am 20 years old and he ... (287 words)

What is the best option for this relationship going forward?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4515 days ago

9 August 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - We broke up about 3 weeks ago. We were in a long-distance relationship. It was her that broke up with me, but after a week I realized that it was for the best, so it's mutual. I still really love her, and she still has strong feelings for me (but doesn't love me), but the tim... (427 words)

Which career choice should I go for?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4516 days ago

9 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. This isn't really about a relationship problem. Mainly a life problem. Anyways I'm currently in college for my AA and after that I'm going into the RN course! I know this is an amazing field to go into, but I sometimes don't feel that my heart is into it. Ever since I was ... (257 words)

How can I juggle time with my friends and time with my boyfriend without worrying about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4512 days ago

9 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm so worried and confused. I started college in the beginning of the year. My boyfriend started going to the same college, but only recently, this week. My college is known for being very expensive, therefore there's a LOT of unfriendly people there and people who only care ... (249 words)

Questions about BDSM

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4514 days ago

9 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, i was wondering if anybody does BDSM? If so, how did youget into it? How old were you? How much of it do you do? Are you hardcore of do you like it soft? What have been your experiences with BDSM? Thanks. :)... (44 words)

This guy is treating me really coldly after I told him I have a boyfriend, What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4517 days ago

9 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, i have a relationship question. i have a boyfriend that i just love,we have been together for over that 1 year 9 months and now we are doing a long distance relationship. and here i met with this guy, who obviously like me but he did not say it, he tried too and after tr... (109 words)

My boyfriend is a super "homebody" and I'm not!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4518 days ago

9 August 2012 (?) age 30-35 - My bf and I have been together for almost 3 years. We get along great and we both are college students (don't live together). My problem is that my bf is a major homebody. His desire to be home all the time (cuddling, playing games, watching TV, etc) is contagious and I become ... (266 words)

Do I need to regain her interest? What can I do to rekindle our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4512 days ago

9 August 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - A girl that I have liked for some time and I finally met up again last summer and hit it off immediately. We began talking and were going places. Throughout the course of the year we began to talk nightly on the phone for maybe 2 or 3 hours at a time and all was great. I ... (234 words)

I'm in love with my uncle, what do I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4499 days ago

9 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone i need some advice, ok first of all i have been married for 12 years to a dead beat, ass hole, that only cares bout himself.. ok now heres the thing, I have been in love with a man since i was 17 years old. We lost contact for 17 years and i never stopped looking ... (125 words)

How do I let go of my feelings for her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4518 days ago

9 August 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I went out with this girl now 16 months ago, we only went out for two months and I can honestly say she was my first love, over the past year and a bit we've almost got back together several times and everytime she calls it off saying how it wouldn't work or she wants to ive ... (295 words)