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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Heyy please help me out. I am confused and don't know what to do. A month ago me and my bf broke up. Didnot contact each other for like two weeks. And then became friends. Then we start seeing each other and he starts kissing me. I think we are back, so I ask him and he says no we are not back, starts kissing again and then still says we are not back but kisses me, and we always talk to each other as the way we were before. I told him maybe you are confused and need time but he says no. And then talks about friends with benefits. I love him tooo much and want to get back. What does he want? What shall I do now? Sleep with him? And ask him to think about it again or what?
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (13 August 2012):
 HE WANTS S*X!!!! THAT, and NOTHING ELSE!!!!!
You are putting yourself in the precarious position of allowing that s*x to go forward, whilest YOU delude yourself in to believing that this new arrangement is the prelude to him taking up with you - like a proper "boyfriend." IT IS NOT!!!!
Good luck....
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (13 August 2012):
 Do not sleep with him honey
do not kiss him
do not see him
all he wants is sex....
Block him... avoid him... do not believe his words..
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (13 August 2012):
 He wants sex, but not a relationships with you.
Basically, he wants a familiar place to park his dick without having to put an effort into a relationship... all while he looks for someone ELSE to date.
If you continue to sleep with him he will NOT change his mind and want a relationship back with you.. He's getting what he wants from you, sex.
If you care about him and care about yourself you will tell him no dice. Even if it means that he will find someone else (he will anyways).
Find someone who WANTS to be with you, not just screw you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2012): I would avoid him like the plague! He wants sex, and ended the relationship so it would seem its not just you he wants it from. Where as you are living in hope for the relationship to begin again. By sleeping with him you will not win his heart and get him back, in the long run it will end in more hurt. Respect yourself and tell him that you don't do FWB, save yourself from wasting time with this guy who just wants casual relationships with people and wait for someone who wants you and only you.
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