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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Last October, my bf and I broke up after 7 years together. It was the most difficult time in my life. A few months later, we started talking again and he begged me to get back together with him. He said he would change. I foolishly took him back and fell for all the lies he told me. He treated me so well for a few months and made me feel secure with him. The passion and love came back to both of us. I really started to believe that he changed. I started to open back up. Right when I opened back up, he started acting like a jerk again. He would start telling me that I'm nagging him and that he will do what he wants to do and completely disregard my opinion. He became very disrespectful and started taking me for granted. I began to feel very lonely again. Then the sex stopped and he just tells me he is not in the mood. We haven't had sex in a month. I have to say I have been nagging him more about the things that he use to do and that he doesn't do anymore. And he says he doesn't see what he is doing differently even though there is a drastic difference. He is not making time for for me anymore and always make times for his friends. I feel like I am just an option to him. I don't know what to do and why he is acting like this. Every night I just want to cry myself to sleep with the frustration and loneliness that I feel. To top it all off, I missed my period this month.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2012): Get an abortion. You don't have to like it but it is a better option than the alternatives. You are still very early in the pregnancy so now is the time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2012): You need to let go and give both of you space. If you are pregnant this is not a healthy environment to bring up a child.You should have set certain rules before going back; because he has you he takes you for granted. Leave him and dont go back until he makes certain commitments.You should also do a pregnancy test and what ever decision you make must be for yours and the baby's happiness. Dont compromise and settle for less.
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