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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Cheating b/f gave me genital herpes, is there anything natural I can take?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4469 days ago

25 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I really need some advice as I am in bits and don't know what to do I recently caught my boyfriend of nearly 2 years cheating on me so I went to a gum clinic to get myself tested for any stis and I found out I have genital herpes I feel so miserable and dirty any advice on ... (84 words)

I'm having sex with one of my brother's best friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4470 days ago

25 August 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Recently, I started a sexual relationship with this woman...We've only had sex a handful of times, but I may have grown attached already...We talk all the time, even after we've had a night of passion haha... We have a slight problem though...She's one of my brothers best fr... (276 words)

Do women look at men's butts?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

25 August 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Is it true that women look at mens butts like men look at theirs...!!??... (14 words)

He has a girlfriend but likes me and texts me every day?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4469 days ago

25 August 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - This guy who has a girlfriend texts me every day. They've been going out for over a year, but like 2 weeks ago he told me that he likes me and how he was confused and mad at himself for liking me, only because he has a girlfriend. But he still talks to me everyday. So I'm ... (94 words)

I fell for an intern while my boyfriend was recovering from a crash in the hospital!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

25 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone,I am not here to be judged I just need advise so please be kind.. About 3 years ago I met this wonderful guy when I was in college,we started dating,let's call him blaine,so blaine and I we got into a pretty serious relationship and everything was going great un... (285 words)

How do I meet friends and people to socialize with? I feel very lonely.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4469 days ago

25 August 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, I am 24, I've just moved out. I have a job/career that I love and I'm really happy with that aspect of my life. However, I think I've sacrificed a social life to get to where I want/needed to be. I would say, I have three close friends in my City, they are all... (181 words)

I cheated on all of these men, why are they still calling me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4469 days ago

25 August 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I have had serveral men in my life once a point a time that I use to deal financely,sexually,mentally the whole nine yards.now these guys have saw each other but they don't know each other like that and the first guy caught me with the second guy proudly to say we began a ... (173 words)

I'm afraid that by visiting my ex's dad in the hospital I lost my boyfriend for good.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4469 days ago

25 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey there! I'd more so like to ask of other perspectives about my situation rather than ask what to do. It starts with this guy, "Dan", I am head over heels for. I am 18 and he is 22. (I'm only mentioning this for detailed purposes as age has no significance to ... (665 words)

I met my soul mate online but he just broke up with me via text because his mom told him to!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4466 days ago

25 August 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupids I am at my lowest point ever I hope you can understand everything I have to say , and would really like your opinions of how to go about this. I met this guy online ( i know I was also one of the ones that said never meet a guy online) but well... (360 words)

My baby's father has cheated on me and come in and out of my life for years. I met a new stable guy now. Who should I choose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

25 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone,i love all my confidential friend because they always support me when needed.I need more help than ever,i have been in a relationship for 5 years,i love the guy so much,he was my first and we are very confident to each other.At a certain time, we had the best ... (495 words)

I was at a swinger's party, didn't do anything but don't want my ex to find out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

25 August 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Sorry I'm gonna keep this as short as possible. I am still in love with my ex. we broke up 3 yrs ago. One of our mutual friend told me a month ago tht she told him that she still likes me. I was super happy to hear tht. We broke up cuz I wasn't motivated n living in a basement. ... (357 words)

Dating but somewhere contact has dwindled. I've fallen for him and need advice. Please help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

25 August 2012 (?) age 36-40 - A long story short, I met this guy and were in the initial stages of dating him for about a month and a half. From my point of view, and those closest to me whom know about the whole ordeal thought that the so called "relationship" was going in a good direction. We contac... (571 words)

Do women enjoy small penis, or miss the big ones?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4449 days ago

25 August 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I had a two month break a few years ago before we got married. During this time she hooked up with another dude. I always assumed he may have been bigger than me or better in bed. Well I overheard my wife tell someone " I've only had two men, but I'm not with the ... (271 words)

Married one year. He disgusts me and he will not sleep with me. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4469 days ago

25 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband and I just passed our 1 year anniversary ... However he disgusts me. I can't stand to be around him, he won't even sleep with me.. So I resent him for that. He won't take showers for days, doesn't even change his underwear, won't brush his teeth to even go work... (139 words)

We broke up but I want to remain close friends

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

25 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, To make it short and simple I want to start by saying my boyfriend and I have been going out for 5 years. We've had our ups and downs in the relationship but always knew how to steer it back on the right track when things were going wrong. We were inseperable... (979 words)

Boyfriend can't forget about football even while on vacation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

25 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - In november my boyfriend and i are travelling around south east asia for a month. he's already informed me that he'll be checking football scores of his local team back home - i thought he'd be having such a great experience with me that he could forget football for three ... (51 words)

Using my friend to make my crush jealous. Big mistake?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

25 August 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Girl A is a girl that I use to be very friendly with. She and I would talk very often and she would unmistakably say flirtateous stuff to get a rise out of me. I was convinced that she had a thing for me. One day, I tried asking her out but she completely turned me down. That ... (572 words)

What is going on? Does this guy likeM Or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4470 days ago

25 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - this guy works at a store near my home everytime i go in there he starts making conversation.and come to find out my co workers boyfriend and him are best friends.well he always starts the converstion when i see him and when im in the check out line comes anf talks to me ... (284 words)

Just can't shake this bad love story..

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4450 days ago

25 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I don't do this much but I have no one to talk to. Just over a year ago I met a man. I don't believe in love at first sight but I was instantly attached to him. After a few short encounters I got to know him better and found out he was twice my age (I was 21) and had kids ... (282 words)

The girl I love and my ex are going on holiday together

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4464 days ago

25 August 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Where do I begin? I've recently split up with my girlfriend of 7 years as I'm in love with someone else. Everything is a mess, our lives are all so interwoven and it's been the process of many years. There has always been something between me and this other girl since I met... (811 words)

I found my mother in bed with my boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

25 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel desperate and I really need someone's help. It happened yesterday, I came back from a holiday with my dad (mom and dad are separated). We returned a little earlier than we were going to and I found out my mother was sleeping with my boyfriend. I was distroyed sinc... (221 words)

Us plus sex equals not working. Hes down I'm frusterated please help!?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

25 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Please help, i have just had unsatisfying sex again with my fiancee. Normally our sex life is good, but lately i havent been able to orgasm at all. I can really only achieve one by masturbating or in other words clitoral stimulation. My fiancee doesnt like giving oral sex. It ... (165 words)

The honeymoon phase is over and I'm feeling distant - what do I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

25 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Lately, I've been feeling more distant from my boyfriend, and I'm not really sure why. Maybe you folks can give me some advice or things to think about. I first noticed it when my sex drive jumped off a cliff - historically, he and I have gotten busy about once a week, and I ty... (430 words)

Why has my ex contacted me all of a sudden?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4470 days ago

25 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex called me at first to 'ask me if I knew where D was' and he is one of his close friends. We just talkk now and then. Two days later e text me and said 'you okay?' I said I'm good thanks, you? He said yeah, how've you been? I said that's the same question, he said no its a ... (248 words)

How can I block my ex? She keeps texting me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4469 days ago

25 August 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - plz anyone have advice 4 me i would be greatful. my ex girlfriend keeps texting me, some nice texts and some nasty. i dont reply to any of them at all and delete them. when will she give up we split a month ago. she sends about 3 or 4 a day and some days none. i dont reply but ... (116 words)

I'm 26 married and still we can't have sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

25 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - i am a 26 yr old girl.got married one yr back..but ever since i have not been able to have penetrable sex ..he is able to enter only a inch of his penis inside me..ive tried all lubricants but nothing has helped..its very frustrating ... (46 words)

I don't want to have sex yet so was it wrong of me to go that far?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

25 August 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so I'm 16 and my bf and I have been dating for almost a year and today my friends had a back to school party, every1 there basically was all over their bf's and stuff but me and my bf aren't like that sobwe just did small cuddling and stuff. Until recenty we had only ever ... (375 words)

How do I get better at riding a man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4455 days ago

25 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19 years old and have only had two partners (one when I was very young) and another recently so not that experienced. He is now my ex but still curious as to how i can get better at riding. Everything else during the sex was good the mental connection was there definitely ... (508 words)

I feel like I should respect my parents' wishes, but ...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4470 days ago

25 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for two years, and for the most part I think we've been pretty happy. I plan on moving out with him most likely within the next year, but I'm living with my parents right now and it's causing a lot of tension between me and my boyfriend. He i... (158 words)

He was drunk when he said he was interested, is that worth following up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4471 days ago

25 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 22 year old college student, I have had a huge crush on a guy for 2 years now and have never had the courage to talk to this guy, I'll call him "Benjamin". He is a wonderful, sweet, funny, GREAT looking guy. He is honestly perfect in every way. The first time he sp... (702 words)

What could be his reasons for not wanting to go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4470 days ago

25 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I posted recently about my current situation, I have decided to leave my boyfriend and take our daughter back to California with me. Both of us to get a fresh start. I am wondering what is his reason for wanting to stay where he is at? I told him I'm leaving he gets an atti... (154 words)

I love my ex AND my Boyfriend. Two different guys, and both with Issues. How can I solve this mess I am in?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4471 days ago

25 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my ex and my fiance.. and they're 2 different people. I was with this guy for 4 years, we had 2 kids together but he was abusive. He was pretty controlling and I took him to court and had a domestic violence order put against him. I started talking to another guy who ... (165 words)

Booty is one thing. But were this man's actions disrespectful and selfish?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

25 August 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I met a guy who I slept with the first night. I regreted it the next day and didn't think I'd hear from him again. He works 2 weeks on 1 week off and has been texting me, asking me how I am etc and whether I wanted to catch up when he came back. Well I did catch up with him... (546 words)

My friend of many years ago. Help me understand? What is her problem? Why does she use people and copy me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4470 days ago

25 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this friend of mine over 20 years ago. The only thing we really had in common was that we were both painfully shy, neither of us really had any friends and we lived in the same neighborhood. We later made friends with another girl and she is really the one who kept "th... (962 words)

Indian society is very harsh on babies born out of wedlock but the man wants nothing to do with me. What do I do now?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4469 days ago

25 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid I am basically Indian, working in US. Had an affair with a guy, I was in love with him, obviously he just used me for sex and money. Now I am pregnant, he didn't use condom, since Indian guys hate condom. They never use one, I took morning after pill, it didn't ... (135 words)

What do I do to get through this break up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4471 days ago

25 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel like my life is over. After 4 years of love everything is over. He says that the door to his heart is closed and he has no more love for me. I am devastated. I really thought he was the one... My soulmate. I wanted to marry and have kids with him. I feel i ruined... (177 words)

I watched my ex friend with benefits beat his wife! Why would he do this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

25 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I found myself in a situation I never been in a few days ago. Someone I had a fwb relationship for a few months and I stopped it last month came to my house. We remain friends still but I know that this maybe an issue now. He showed up at my house w/out me knowing out of ... (397 words)

He performed oral on me and then we broke up. What happened?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

25 August 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - He kept telling me how much he wanted me in his life and wants to tell his children and siblings about me but only told siblings and they wasnt happy about it {or he's white and Im black} but he said he didnt care how they feel he cares about me. I told him if thats true do ... (84 words)

Is he ever going to change, or is this going to be it forever?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4471 days ago

25 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for three and half years now, but last year and half I've been extremely unhappy. Me and my partner don't do anything together, no dates, outings, holidays, anything! Only time I see him is when I go to his, we sit in, eat dinner and watch ... (165 words)

Should I confront the man my wife had a one night stand with?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4467 days ago

25 August 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife had a one night stand behind my back. She was in school with this guy and he knew she was married. I know where this guy lives, my question is do i go round there and hit the shit out of him?... (44 words)

Is she really insecure, jealous, and paranoid? Or do I have a compulsive problem.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4471 days ago

25 August 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - When we go out in public, my girlfriend has accused me several times of "ogling" and "lusting" at women, whether at a restaurant, grocery store, or while shopping. I am very perplexed, because I am truly a gentleman when I'm with her. I am very romantic, caring, and a... (279 words)

I've never met anyone so straightforward about their perviness!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

25 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - We're both 30 and newly started dating and I think he is perfect... for the most part anyway. He showed me a collection of photos of near-naked celebrities. It's so disturbing, it's making me insecure cuz he admitted that he's obsessed with nice bodies. He also talks about ... (155 words)

Inappropriate txt from friends wife to my husband

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4471 days ago

25 August 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - i just found out from my husband that she said ask your wife how she We have married friends that hang out with us. They have kids the same ages as ours. The wife is 12 years younger then me. She texted my husband a inappropriate message that my husband told me about immediatly ... (329 words)

We like each other but are from 2 different worlds

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4470 days ago

25 August 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - He likes me, but he is conflicted because he picks on me too. Hes from a rich background and I am from a crappy "nobody in my family likes hard work" background. I don't want to be rich; hes snobby and has snobby friends. Our unspoken problem is the barriers of I'm not accepted ... (71 words)