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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What Are Your Fantasies, BDSM Stories?

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8 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, just curious, what are your fantasies for the bedroom? What do you really want to do (or have done) with your partner(s)? I find BDSM to be something interesting, have you tried it? I think I personally would like to be dominated by a man, nothing like choking (I think ... (129 words)

When we broke up people reckoned he was scared, Now hes moved on, what can I do to get him back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4485 days ago

8 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically theres a guy I fell in love with years ago, when we finally got together it wasn't a proper relationship, I'm not the most confident person and neither is he, not with me anyway. With other girls and relationships he fine but with me he wasn't. Everyone said ... (380 words)

Have you ever made a difficult decision feeling sure it was right when everyone else thought it was wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

8 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm so lost right now.. And I'm headed to the worst place I've been in a while.. Since I was about fourteen, I've struggled to honestly love myself. I've suffered from depression as well as multiple eating disorders, one of which lasted for seven years, up until about a year-a... (1485 words)

My boyfriend isnt talking to me any more.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

8 August 2012 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi. I have internet boyfriend troubles. I know all of you will go 'Not again!' but just listen to me. So once I downloaded this app and I met this guy. He is very sweet and we have a lot in common. My friend decided to see what the fuss was about and downloaded the same app... (142 words)

Second thoughts about breaking up and going back to college

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8 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I currently live in California and I'm in very close relationship with my boyfriend. We've been together for about 8 months. However, In a couple of weeks I'll be returning to college on the east coast. I know it's the right thing for me to go back to school... I took a gap ... (252 words)

Is this his depression, or just him being an asshole?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

8 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'd really appreciate other peoples' perspective on this! And I apologise in advance for it being so long winded! My boyfriend and I started seeing one another about five months ago. When we first started dating, he told me that he has depression. Not clinical depress... (955 words)

What do you do in your bedroom? I need some idea's!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4486 days ago

8 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! So im just curious about how others or what others do in their bedrooms. I wouldnt say im trying to spice my sex life, but i would like to try something new that i havent thought of. I dont get much out of dressing up so its more for him. But i would appreciate any ... (70 words)

When is flirting crossing a boundary?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4486 days ago

8 August 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been with my bf for several years. There's something that bugs me about him. When we're out, if he sees an attractive woman he'll let her know she's hot with his expression. He'll raise his eyebrows and do something with his eyes, and the woman will think she's some sort ... (395 words)

How do you break up in a long distance relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

8 August 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I have a guy im in a long distance relationship with and i want to break up. Whats the best way to do it without hurting him.... (27 words)

He didn't offer to take me home first, that is rude right?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

8 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy at a club. I am not his date,he invited me to come over his place to watch movie together. so I came to his place and had a small conversation with him suddenly he invited his friends and left me alone. he ignored me and just had fun with his friend. what w... (155 words)

Should I end my relationship with both of these men? I love them both but it's so overwhelming!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4481 days ago

8 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 4 yrs. I just got into a college that is two and a half hours away from our hometown and we found a home and he moved out here first. My employer wouldn't let me leave until she got back from her mission trip so I was able to do ... (302 words)

My partner stole from my father and now my mom thinks he stole from her,I should hate him for this right?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4486 days ago

8 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My partner admitted to taking £10 from my dads money. He said he borrowed it and was going to put it back that same night but my Dad noticed the money was missing and called me at work. My partner denied taking it at first but yesterday (3 weeks later) he admitted to taking it. ... (296 words)

Any suggestion on how to bring my mother to life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4481 days ago

8 August 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Well, I'm living with a single mom along with my brother. My parents are not exactly divorced, but aren't in good terms and have been living apart for past four years. Now my mom's not really a deep thinker, and there's nothing of art or music that really interests her. S... (297 words)

Should I forget him as he's not interested and move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

8 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel attracted to a man in my workplace but I have never been able to know how he feels for me. I find it quite difficult to understand his behaviour towards me. At times, I catch him looking at me longingly while at other times he make as if he did not see me although I know ... (165 words)

How do I minimize my daily masturbation?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4486 days ago

8 August 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - i am 20 years old and i have not been in a relationship ever. what i am going to share and ask with you is important for me. i am in a habit of masturbation once daily . i want to stop doing it. i need advice how can i control myself to minimize it . will daily masturba... (73 words)

My boyfriend wants me to move interstate with him, which means quitting my job, selling my house, etc.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

8 August 2012 (F) age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 3.5 years is considering applying for jobs interstate. He may be lucky to find a job where we currently are (his current one will be ending soon) but i would say it is 50/50. I know it isn't actually happening yet but we need to be on the same page if it does ... (212 words)

Is he having a mid-life crisis? Is this not love?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

8 August 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Because What would a man his age want with a woman like this? Ok well my Ex and I we are split up for about 5 months . We still tells me about his life , and for the past 3 months he is constantly talking about his friend he met for the first time after a year and a half online ... (357 words)

S this a normal male perspective please?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4486 days ago

8 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, this is a question for guys mainly... I have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year, and spending most of the last 6 months staying round at his house. My lease has come up on my own shared house and so I am moving into a new flat. He says that as I have been living ... (231 words)

Should I tell my parents to go off on the holiday without me? I'm so hurt by her comments!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

8 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a rocky relationship with my mother, neither of us are a innocent party here really. Im 21 and just recoverd after a tough year involving a family bereavement. Our relationship has never been easy really, we sometimes really don’t get along. On Christmas eve last year ... (631 words)

Why do I shut my eyes from reality?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

8 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - i've been off an on with this guy for 8yrs now. i've never been so infactuated with someone like i was for him.turns out that he is controlling,manipulative and emotionally abusive.we break up atleast twice a year because he becomes very short and distant with me.almost as if i ... (170 words)

How can I forget him or is there a solution to make him forget his first gf?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

8 August 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I broke up with my bf recently because i found out he's still in love with his first gf. Iv tried all means to forget him but i cant wipe him off my heart. Iv even blocked him, deleted his contact, i go out with my pals but everything reminds me of him. He and his first gf are ... (95 words)

I don't want a relationship but he turns me on!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

8 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Theres this guy I've worked with for about two years now. He is super sweet and been really supportive towards me about my recent break up. I don't want a relationship yet but when I'm around him e just turns me on so much. Like he accidentally touched my face and every h... (102 words)

Difficulty in meeting other single people either for dating or friendship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

8 August 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I have plenty of friends but they are all in one aspect of my life, the theatre. So, see each other a lot when rehearsing but much less when we are not. Mostly because they are all coupled and mostly with kids (because of our ages - we're all in our 30s/early 40s). I re... (423 words)

Why does he get angry when I don't want to socialize with his friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

8 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Why does my bf get angry when ever his friends phone and make arrangements and I decline for good reason yet I'm not stopping him from joining them?I've been with him five years and we have major issues which he won't address like no sexual contact.I don't want him to think ... (92 words)

Is it love or lust for this coworker?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4483 days ago

8 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I think I am in love, but I am unsure and would like some advice. A guy at work, who I only talk to on the phone because he is outstationed, asked me over the phone if I was going to be in the office the following day. I replied that I would be in the office all day if he ca... (400 words)

What can I do to see if he likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4487 days ago

8 August 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello. Im gona try to be as short as possible. There s this boy(same grade,age as me ) at school that i like but he doesnt know yet. Thing is..most of the time when i look at him, his eyes are already looking at me. Usualy he will be smiling, i dont know why then i would ... (157 words)

Is there any way to be more attractive to men?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

8 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, lately ive been having problems with my looks. I feel like all my friends are becoming prettir than me. They all have become super pretty and get alot of guys and i dont. even my own best friend, people tell me im prettier than her but i dont know, she is outgoing muslum ... (124 words)

Do I wait until he makes a move?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4487 days ago

8 August 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - i have a guy friend who i really like a lot, but im so confused about his mixed signals. He flirts with me like crazy, and calls me up just pick him up and just drive around. I have a car and he doesnt so he calls me up for a ride. how do i know if he likes me forreal, because ... (81 words)

Consumed with guilt and shame over Paternity issues. How do I move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

8 August 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I am so ashamed of what I have done. I have been in a common law relationship with someone for about 20 years. Very rocky relationship with him suffering from drug addiction. Long story short I had an affair with someone from my past it went on for about 5 years and now ... (464 words)

Is it me or is my boyfriend using my past as an excuse to break up with me?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 4483 days ago

8 August 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been seeing this guy for well over a year now. We attended high school together but didn't really know one another. We have a mutual friend 'Jeff' that I slept with one time almost 20 years ago after we all graduated from high school. I did not disclose this info to my ... (285 words)

She gets all the sympathy and attention. I hurt. How Can Stop Being Jealous of her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

8 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This has been on my chest for a while. Although I know I am wrong for feeling like this, I absolutely cannot stand this girl who I will be living with next year. It didn't start off like this, but even the thought of her now ruins my mood and I compare everything about her to ... (864 words)

How can I tell my parents that after I finish university I want to pursue a career in playing guitar?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4486 days ago

8 August 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, this isn't a relationship question but I'd really like some outside opinions on this problem. I am currently attending university, studying criminology and going into my 3rd year. However back when I started 1st year I had started to play my guitar a lot more in order to... (324 words)

Should I pursue a relationship with this guy or move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4487 days ago

8 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - so i had a crush on this guy..lets call him dan. things didnt work out with us but i ended up dating his best friend. we'll call him luke. so luke and i dated for about 6 months and we broke up. i ended up having sex with dan and i hurt luke alot. i didnt know luke wanted me ... (143 words)

Great sex stories?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

8 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, just wondering, what's the best sex you have ever had? Where was it at? Who with (friend, spouse, etc)? What made it so great? Was it a special, intimate moment? Also, what was your "first time" like? I just think it's interesting hearing people's experiences, you... (63 words)

Why am I so afraid to ask out this girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4488 days ago

8 August 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So there's this girl I have a huge crush on at my lifeguarding summer job and have had a huge crush on her literally for two months since she first arrived to work here (before anyone says anything regarding that: it's perfectly okay for co-workers to date each other here with ... (238 words)

Why didn't he wish me well and good luck like everyone else?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

8 August 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Last year while drunk at a works party a workmate and I expressed feelings for one another but in the cold light of day decided not to act upon them; firstly because work and play do not mix well and secondly we are both already attached. We put those feelings to one side and ... (355 words)

I want to become a stripper!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

8 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I know people will read this and may think this sounds like a sleazy kinda job, but I really want to become a lap dancer (stripper) or my biggest dream is to be a burlesque dancer. it has always been my passion, I am an intelligent girl and left school with great exams and ... (198 words)

Can I trust this man when he's not honest?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4488 days ago

8 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, wondered if anyone could shed any light on my boyfreind of eight years actions??? we recently spent 8 weeks apart and got back together (we have done this a few times over the years) .... Only I have this nagging doubt, he has a biz and recently I saw a message where ... (300 words)