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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Advice for getting rid of acne scars?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

10 August 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I've had acne for 7 years now and since i got them my everyone said they were just teenage spots but after 7 years they're still there and some have scarred. But it's really getting me down and lowering my confidence and self esteem, I've tried so many products but they just ... (101 words)

I can't seem to climax during sex, is it because of his size? the position?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

10 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright, so getting straight into it, my boyfriend and I have been sexually active for about 5 months or so. He is what I personally consider my first proper boyfriend, as my 'real' first lasted a very short time because of abuse, but we were not sexually active. I was qui... (495 words)

Crush on my former teacher - what to do with our friendship now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

10 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Long post, but please read! I'm having a dilemma. Basically, I had this teacher in eleventh grade for economics and the minute he became my teacher I developed a huge crush on him. Literally, could not wait for his class, would make sure I looked really pretty in the mo... (604 words)

Is gaining 10 lbs going to make a man lose interest in a woman?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

10 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright so about a month ago I had to put my dog to sleep and since then I have gained about 10lbs and I am super paranoid about my husband cheating on me. I feel like he doesn't find me attractive anymore and he's been completely ignoring me. I've been eating healthy and ... (107 words)

Boyfriend looked at porn because I talked to ex, will he keep doing it?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4483 days ago

10 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. I need some advice. Yesterday, I came home and there was a light blinking on my boyfriend and I's antivirus thing. I thought it was no biggie, so I continued watching my show on Netflix. Finally, I got annoyed, and clicked on it. It happened to be a virus al... (353 words)

If we can't date, I'd like us to be friends, but how do I do this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4485 days ago

10 August 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey! Well... I have a problem. It's a long story because you'll need some background knowledge to really get what im talking about! Hahaha im a fickle one! Aaaanyway, there is this guy that i've known now for about 3 years and we started of well. Lets call him "1". We were bes... (593 words)

I've developed some kinda rash or pimples on my back and chest and it's ruining my life! how do I deal with this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

10 August 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Im so confused right now. Thing is, ive developed a rush like pimples on my chest. When they heal they leave a dark scar mark. So since ive developed them, more than 3 people (adults) told me that its a sign that i might not have children in future. One even gave me an example ... (174 words)

Would you give your girl a second chance after she cheated on you?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4482 days ago

10 August 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - hello everyone, i'm confused but reached the end when i'm with dearcupid. Men will you forgive your girl of 4 years, after she cheated for the first with no reason and confess to you. And then tells you how much she loves you, can't live with out you. Will you give a second ... (54 words)

I would love to be confident like my friends! How can I come out of my shell?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

10 August 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I've always been the quiet one in my group of friends and the one with no confidence but i really want to be like my other friends, they're so confident and know how to start conversations. How do i come out of my shell and be less quiet and hidden?... (50 words)

I scared off my partners friend's while they were visiting now my partners mad at me! what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

10 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear All, My partner and I have been together a year and live in the UK together. Our flat is seriously tiny, with only one bedroom, but he invited three of his friends to stay with us for a week when they came from Brazil, his home country. For the first day or 2 it was ... (347 words)

It's been thirty years since I have seen him in person! why does he want to meet up so bad?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

10 August 2012 (F)

age - I had a hugh crush on this guy in high school, I mean three years of high school. He was the one for me only I made the mistake (as most young girls do) by telling my friends. Soon it was all over. He knew but never said anything to me about it. I never told him either. Now ... (705 words)

Feeling very embarrassed by premature ejaculation

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

10 August 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - SO its been 3 years now that i discovered i had premature ejaculation..just the other day i was giving my gf some foreplay for about 10 min..and then she wanted me to put it in and when i did i took it out immediately because i was going to cum...luckily i didnt cu inside of ... (91 words)

Boyfriend can't ejaculate during sex but can masturbate

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4483 days ago

10 August 2012 (F)

age - My boyfriend can't ejaculate when we have sex - I know it sounds weird because every other guy I've been with has come pretty quickly... and he can come when he masturbates, it's just when we have intercourse. He tells me he enjoys making love with me, but I wonder... wouldn't ... (65 words)

I want to move our LDR toward marriage ...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

10 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi aunty, im in a long distance relationship now. for a year. and we knew for two years he loves me and i love him too, its just the situtaion so difficult hes so frustrated about our distance that were far away from each other, the situation is im still studying and ... (309 words)

Could my marriage be ending before it even started?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

10 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello people! My marriage is currently in a critical state. I separated/strategically ran away from my husband after 5months of our marriage. That short duration was clouded with misunderstandings, i saw his mean, self centred, unempathitic, somewhat controlling side. I ... (235 words)

I feel like men are not interested in me because I don't have kids.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

10 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I feel like society looks down on single childless, educated women but holds single mums in high praise and I don't understand why? I feel like men are not interested in me because I don't have kids, both my ex partners went on to marry women with kids and usually when... (139 words)

What is wrong with me, do I regret my decision?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

10 August 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone I'm Jasper, i'm 18 years old and live in Belgium. A month ago I broke up with my girlfriend after begin together for a year and three months. When we were together i had periods of nausea and after a while I discovered that anxiety/stress was causing this.... (242 words)

We're planning a wedding, but I don't think I want to marry her. Please help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

10 August 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi,Im with my girlfriend 5 years.We got engauged a couple of months ago and ever since we are not as close.I am happy about 70% of days but to be honest when we are out for a night I find we are very quiet with one another.We have sex about once a week as we both work hard.It ... (142 words)

I don't want to lose my dad, but he doesn't have the will to live. I just need some advice.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

10 August 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I owe my life to my dad; I know I do and he wants nothing of it. I know this post is long but please, the details are needed. I need you all to understand the fact that I can't not live without my dad in my life. He's done everything for me under extremely hard circumstances. ... (798 words)

I love being a step mom, but we're having trouble with my partner's ex. Advice needed!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

10 August 2012 (F)

- My partner and I are engaged to be married next year, I have a daughter from a previous relationship and he has a daughter from a previous relationship. The children have really bonded and we are happy as a family, the problem is his ex. When the child was born they broke up ... (460 words)

Have his feelings changed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

10 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been hooking up with a guy from work for a little over a month now. We said we just wanted to be friends but we both started to develop feelings. Last Friday we were together and he was telling me how he likes me and wants to see me more. Suddenly at work this week he ... (120 words)

Mixed signals from ex are really confusing me.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4467 days ago

10 August 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - A confusing scenario, probably simply answered by you guys, and girls, one of my ex girlfriends, who absolutely without a doubt does not want to be with me any longer, has moved on, but shows up when her and her mom or her boyfriend get into an argument or something, she will ... (174 words)

I need some advice about having sex while on my period.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

10 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - For the guys out there; Recently me and the guy I'm dating had sex and he knew I just got off my period (literally the last day of my period, going to his place I was off my period) and its been a little while so we took the opportunity and went for it. He started going down on ... (155 words)

What do you think of this situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

10 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I just need a bit of help regarding this situation I met a man almost 2 years ago I fell for him almost immediately but not I realise he conned me into a fwb at forst he told me places we would go he was really loving saw him everyday for a month everything was great then it ... (177 words)

My girlfriend wants sexual play involving her butt and I can't do it

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4483 days ago

10 August 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend is great. I really love her not to mention her intelligence, sense of humor and...amazing looks. The other day we were had some shower sex that turned into regular sex -- recently she's been into 69, so that's what we did. To be honest, it doesn't do that ... (216 words)

I think my b/f is bisexual but he denies it and won't talk about it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4485 days ago

10 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, about a month ago one of my boyfriends cousins told me that my boyfriend had dated a guy long distance before. I was curious so I openly asked my boyfriend if he was bisexual, I told him that if he was I'd still love him and that it wouldnt change my feelings toward him. ... (207 words)

My cheater boyfriend doesn't trust me even I never cheat..

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

10 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So..I have been dating with this guy for over one and a half year. He is 30s and I'm 20s. Age is not a problem for me as I love him and used to prefer mature guys. Basically he has quite a lot of affairs - around one every three months..anyways I survived.. Bu... (246 words)

He says he doesn't want a girlfriend so why does he want to introduce me to his family?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4483 days ago

10 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have this guy who tells me he does not want a girlfriend and that I should not expect for him to eventually be my boyfriend. I get this, and am trying to decide what I want. However, on the next part Id thia conversation he had with me, he asked if I think of him or if I ... (136 words)

I don't understand why my ex is ignoring me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

10 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - why is my ex ignoring me? :( me and my ex broke up about 2 and a half months ago, at the time it was because we didn't have the time to see each other enough and had a massive argument about it, but i've since found out he was/ is scared of commitment aswell. i cut him off a co... (1003 words)

Is he selfish? I give him a bj and the mood is gone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4471 days ago

10 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hello all, thanks in advance for ur help... I have a question related to sex... Me and my boyfriend have never had sex, we have only had orals, and blow job and fingerings... We have our intimate times, we would be kissing and all that stuff, and he would be very romantic, and ... (178 words)

Should I text my guy friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

10 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - He's a friend I made at college and he's awesome. I liked him, he wasn't interested that way, it was a little awkward but we're cool now. I do not want him to know that I'm still into him. We've talked just a few times over the summer (he mostly initiated the conversations). ... (180 words)

Lies? Falseness? Who is being truthful and who is being something else in this situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4485 days ago

10 August 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So, my closest friend's best friend basically ditched her for her bestfriend and since then we became really close. However now she has just split with her boyfriend of 12 months and the girl who used to be her bestfriend is now saying that she is always there for her and stuf... (82 words)

His FB status says married. Do you think this means they're together? He is a joker

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

10 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy I met at the very end of my exchange and we hooked up on my last night there. It's been almost 6 weeks now and on Facebook he's just put that he's in a relationship with some girl but it says "Married". I know that he is definitely not married to her. I... (229 words)

Is he flirting? Or getting too fresh? Or something else? Is this flirting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4486 days ago

10 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello I am asking for advice on flirting. I usually can tell when a man is flirting with me and I am like 80% sure this is going on in a harmless way Of course. I'm just confused of this is flirting or friendly chat etc. at first it was just trying to scare me by running up... (260 words)

My boyfriend acts like a spoiled brat and says I'm not a caring girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4486 days ago

10 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. we've been dating for years and it seems like I will never understand what kind of man he is. We planned for holiday together an all of sudden his parents has to see him. From last week wednesday he was on leave an now on a holiday his parents want to see him. I ... (130 words)

Am I over-reacting or is he trying to confuse me? After he's been away a few day he changes.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

10 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Here is the deal. My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 months about to go on 8. I'm 19 and he is 22. For his job he goes out of town a lot. Well, for the first couple days he is gone he is so sweet, caring, and acts like he did when I first met him. Then one or tw... (164 words)

How can I orgasm from penetrative sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3692 days ago

10 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - well me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and a half now and i love him and our sex life is fantastic as he is the first partner i have had that has made me orgasm in anyway, i can orgasm easily through oral sex and also when we do doggy and i rub my clitoris. my ... (119 words)

Is it normal to not feel pleasure during sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4486 days ago

10 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello there! I suppose this is quite to the point, but I literally feel nothing during sex. At first, sleeping with my boyfriend was painful. But that's normal and we've gotten through that, but never once has it been pleasurable. I'm getting quite resentful that he or... (179 words)

Boyfriend is mas at me because my ex wants to live with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4486 days ago

10 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone. I really did it!!! I pissed off my boyfriend and now he isn't talking to me. Well, I have been staying with friends since separating from my husband. I am ready to go out on my own but I don't make much money with my minimum wage paying job in the hospitali... (213 words)