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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 months. He's good to me, treats me well. I just have some concerns about his relationship with his ex. He works for her, plays sports with her, they have children together, and he's at her place a lot. He says there close friends which is a bit hard for me as he will bring up that she's had breast implants, a tummy tuck, and he has her pin number to her account blah blah blah. I've asked him early on if he was over her he said yes. I'm falling for him and kind of worried he might not be, just because he brings her up daily. What do u think?
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (13 August 2012):
 the fact that she has the pin to his account is concerning... if they are split he needs to change that.
they have kids together if the kids are young (below high school) they will need a lot of contact to co-parent properly... that's to be expected. and desired.
have you told him you do not want to her about her (except for how it relates to his kids)?
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reader, demeplev +, writes (13 August 2012):
 You seem like a reasonable woman...how can he be over someone who is still in his life? If hes bringing her up that much he may not realize it but subconsciously he is still involved with her.
I understand being friends with an ex as I am one, but I never bring up my ex in any good light if I do bring him up..lol My new man is the light of my life!
I believe men, when they are really falling for a woman, would never bring up another as to not spoil his chances.
You two do not know each other long enough for him to bring up some of this stuff. So my answer is keep him on the side and continue dating others keep your options open, us women get stuck on one guy..try not to and have options the truth will become clearer to you.
Remember you come first if you dont put yourself first no one will. Good luck.
Peace and love
ps keep me posted!
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