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Archived questions from: 18 August, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Driving accident wasn't my fault. Should I pursue it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4475 days ago

18 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I was driving home tonight from town and i was on the stretch to my house when i turned a corner slowly and as i was coming up the road a car passed me on my side and broke my wing mirror. i was was really shocked and nearly shit myself. the drivers husband was too nice and ... (149 words)

Should I be scared that our friendship will be gone now that we've had sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4477 days ago

18 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So been friends with this guy for like a year and a half and he satyed round a few times i see him like twice a week ( he leaves 45min away from me and he always comes see me) and i know most of him mates and he knows some of mine we'r quite close i guys. So i had a house pa... (403 words)

When should your boyfriend say I love you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4477 days ago

18 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for two years. He tells me he likes me constantly. When he says this, his voice changes and he gets a kind of look on his face. When we first got together, he never talked like this. Is this his way of saying I love you? Is there a way I can ask hi... (90 words)

My ex no longer loves me after saying it for months and I can't move on

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

18 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I wrote on here a few months ago about my boyfriend and I who split up, and he was still telling me he loved me but not acting like it. Well its now been 8 months and the situation carried on. He was telling me he was in love with me and wanted to get back together. I then... (229 words)

What makes big boobs more valuable?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

18 August 2012 (F) age 36-40 - I have small breasts nd I hate them. I mean, they're healthy, and that's cool, but despite my feminine body still at 23 people say I look like a 10 year old boy. I don't. I have a defined waist, wide hips, a curvy butt, thick legs... I've never seen a 10 year old boy who looks ... (356 words)

Why did he say it will be better next time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4477 days ago

18 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone just a quick question my friend with benefits were having sex the other night and I told him he could come inside me sorry to be graphic but he said no it will make it better next time what does he mean by this thank you x ... (49 words)

He lives half the time with me, the other half somewhere else. Should I trust him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

18 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - would u trust him?? ive been with this guy since decemeber last year, we met 2 yrs ago on the dating website plenty of fish, Anyway, he moved in with me in start of may and has been bk and forth to another place ever since spending most of the time there, he now work... (214 words)

Ladies: Is long hair on a man attractive?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

18 August 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - is long hair on a man unattractive? i have hair past my shoulders it is always clean and tidy tho. thanks... (22 words)

I want to go on the pill but I don't want to gain weight or have my breasts get larger

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4477 days ago

18 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm about to start the pill and i've heard so many people talk about how they gained weight when taking it. I asked my doctor if i'll gain weight being on it and he said he can't guarantee i won't, or will. But i really, really don't want to I hate my weight already and am ... (249 words)

He doesn't mean that much to me -- should I tell him about the other guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

18 August 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - The names i am using in the story are not the actual names. I'm only using them to make it easier to understand. Alright so there's this guy named John that I used to date last summer and we broke up because he was moving away. Then I met another guy named Keith and he just ... (204 words)

Is this normal? To be told from your mother that they don't love you?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

18 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I would like some opinions from parents:- Would you ever tell your child that you didn't love them? And be completely serious about it? and when I say child I mean a young child. I, myself am a mum and could never imagine in a million years saying that to my child or ever ... (137 words)

Is my boyfriend falling out of love with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

18 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok me and my boyfriend have been together for 10 months now and every seems good but his behavior is starting to change. Its bad enough that his parents don't like me lord know why because I am a respectful, ambitious young woman(own job,car and full time college student), but ... (244 words)

What can I do to save our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

18 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay so there is this guy that I like but he lives in a different town. Whenever I text him he's always buisy working or hanging out with his friends. I've known him for almost 2 years now but I feel like we're drifting apart. What can I do to save our relationship?... (53 words)

My girlfriend and I have had problems for a long time now, should we stay together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

18 August 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid, My girlfriend (22)and I (26) have been together for almost two years. Things were great in the beginning, but we've had problems with her pulling her own weight and looking for a job throughout our relationship. I work and there were times it felt like I had to b... (323 words)

Girlfriend is always asking me to striptease on webcam, then gets mad when I give her what she wants.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4098 days ago

18 August 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello. I'm very concerned about my girlfriend. She frequently asks for me to do a striptease for her on webcam on MSN. Yet, when I do, or I'm in the middle of the process, there's a change of heart, she panics, and gets angry. She then yells at me and calls me bad names. ... (154 words)

My friend wants to sow some wild oats before moving in with her new boyfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4476 days ago

18 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello. I need some advice to give to my friend "Martha". She is going to move in with a guy who is much older than her. She is not underage and she is not so young either. Anyways, once she moves in with him she knows she would like to stay with that guy for the rest of her ... (289 words)

I'm not good enough to marry?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

18 August 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, I've been dating a man for over 2 years. I own my home and he still has a mortgage and a teenager who he has half the time. He asked me to move in with him, but doesn't want to marry me. Even though I'm in my 50's, I still would like to be married again (m... (184 words)

My partner won't stop smoking cannabis.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

18 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - i love my partner very much he works hard a good dad to our 2 year old and a loving partner but at the weekend he smokes canabis and i hate it i cant see any way round this problem i cant talk to him when he smokes it to me hes on another planet to relaxed do i split up even ... (79 words)

Am I superficial for caring so much about a guy's appearance?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

18 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi please don't take me as a negative superficial person,and don't judge,just help me through this.. I have been into fashion,beauty all that since as long as I can remember..so when I see a man not dressed up well for me its a HUGE turn off!!I like a man whose well dressed,... (192 words)

I caught my wife in the bathtub with my brother! What do I do now?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4243 days ago

18 August 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear friends, I am hoping to find a way on how to handle a situation. Me and wife (23) are married for 3 years now and for the last 2 years my youngest brother stays with us for study. He and my wife are close in their age. He is just 19 months lesser than her. Few days ba... (488 words)

Should I tell my Bf that two friends, one being male, plus me, shared a bed during a sleep-over, but nothing happened?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

18 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So I slept in the same bed with two of my friends, one male and one female when I have a boyfriend. Nothing weird happened it was just a simple sleepover but I am worried that my boyfriend will be upset about it - even though they are both his friends too. What should I tell h... (59 words)

What I want vs what he wants!!!!!!! PLEASE HELP!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

18 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for about 7 years. We have traveled a lot, lived a lot of different places and done some amazing things. He is about 1-2 years older than me. This is the issue - I want to get married and have kids and feel like I am running out of time! ... (222 words)

He has a girlfriend, but he keeps telling me I'm the one he wants. Why hasn't he done anything about it, and should I contunue to wait?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

18 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok this is my situation: I still have love for my first love but he is in a relationship. I broke up with him due to the fact I felt as if we were to young to settle dwn right away. After six years I met back up with him but he has a girlfriend. We exchange numbers we text ... (200 words)

He picked his Mistress over me, but still wants to see me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

18 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - we are married for three years total we were together was 7 years. recently he cheated on me and now she choose the mistress than us. but he wants to talk to me and see us and spend time with us more often. but i said no and he beg. my question is why she pick the mistres... (73 words)

Help I'm afraid my man is too kinky for me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

18 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - So let me begin by saying, that I am a very open minded and sexually liberated person, and I'm usually the one causing others to blush. The guy I am seeing now however... So I have begun dating this guy I met online, no where in his profile does it mention how freaky he li... (1164 words)

I miss him so much and I want him back but he just wont talk to me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

18 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - sorry its so long, id really really really appreciate any advice i get though because i am so down about this situation like literally at my wits end, i dont know what to do :( i've posted a few questions on here about my ex... basically we broke up nearly 3 months ago now b... (1152 words)

Should I trust my heart, or listen to my head?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

18 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Three years ago I separated from my ex husband when I found out he was having an affair for the previous 9 months. Our divorce was finalized approximately 6 months ago. During our separation I reconnected with my best friend from high school and ended up getting pregnant... (355 words)

Does he likes me? Did he ever?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4477 days ago

18 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I like thos co-worker who is 18...but is somehow a bit mature professionally...but as to relationships..i don't get him... He showed interest and i backed off...afraid because i was never in a relationship and he is so young and tells about me to others at worky. We hardly ... (208 words)

I'm twenty-nine years old and depressed about being a virgin.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

18 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Here's my situation, I'm 29 going on 30 and I'm still a virgin, I haven't even been kissed yet, mainly I can attribute my situation to rock bottom self esteem due to being teased about my weight my entire life, basically I was raised to believe that men don't really like the so ... (232 words)