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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I can't believe he'd behave like that in front of me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

1 August 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - What do I do with this relationship of thirteen years? My ongoing saga with my bf played out on a night we were out for a couple of drinks last week when on the way home he suggested going to another bar. We were having a good time talking to a couple of guys who were in town... (348 words)

What do I do from here? After our separation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

1 August 2012 (M)

age - My wife started talking to an old boy friend they wound up together and we wound up seperated. I was going through radiation treatments and real sick. We r back together but it is still hurting our relationship... would like to hear comments about what to do from here....... (49 words)

How can I leave her slowly so she doesn't feel she's done something wrong!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

1 August 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey guys... I ll come straight to point ... I have a girlfriend... She is beautifuk classy hot n everything dat i wabted ... One thing i wnted most is her virginity... But she s wasnt ... She had a asshole first bf ... So i still love her so much as hell n she is dieing f... (131 words)

Dumped him for various red flags, agree or disagree?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

1 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dated a guy for almost 2 years andhe never ever took me to his house or showed me where he lived. I found that creepy and asked him about it several times but he just ignored my requests to see his place. Dumped him eventually for that and a bunch of other red flag stuff that ... (146 words)

Should we be friends, casual acquaintances or nothing at all?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4494 days ago

1 August 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So here is my situation, after having dated a girl for a 6 months, we had to separate because we live in different countries. We tried the long distance thing for a while but she ended it because she wasn't ready for the commitment and she had to get her life in order first. I ... (431 words)

Can anyone help me figure out how to get such a hard-to-impress girl to like me back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

1 August 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So, there is this girl. Intelligent, charming, good looking and so on. We get along really well, our conversations are great and I just think our personalities are compatible. But...she is very VERY hard to read; I don't think she's easily impressed and she simply doesn't date. ... (66 words)

My ex boyfriend is destroying my relationship with my friends, please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4453 days ago

1 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all, I am writing to you because I have encountered a problem with my, well, I guess he's my ex boyfriend, but I don't really consider him to be that really. I never really loved him, and he treated me so horribly that I don't believe he ever deserved the "boyfriend" ... (555 words)

Are women of just two types: girlfriends and the easy ones?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

1 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have heard a lot of times that men put women into 2 categories on spot: girlfriend/wife material AND just for fun/sex buddy etc. What are your insights on this topic?... (31 words)

Does this happen to anyone else during orgasm?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4494 days ago

1 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey i was wondering if this happens to anyone else when they orgasm. Im still a virgen i have a bf iv been with over a year though, I noticed when i have an orgasm i have a strong emotional feeling for who ever happens to cross my mind at the time (even people i hate) but as ... (110 words)

Is she cheating still? Is this a salvageable situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

1 August 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - My gf of more than a year and I broke up in April, we each had a rebound and did our thing fr a month and a half. The reason for our break up she claimed she felt stuck and felt as if we were married (granted i felt the same way). Upon getting back together in May/June we began ... (499 words)

Should I stick it out for longer or leave? I'm caught between my feelings for him and logic and the need for growth.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

1 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been having conflicting emotions regarding my boyfriend. He is very sweet and loving. He is emotionally supportive and playful. I love him very much and I know he loves me back. The problems are that we get into fights every other day. He gets mad over small thiin... (935 words)

Do I show my friend the proof that her boyfriend is cheating on her or not?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4483 days ago

1 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a bit of a hard situation here. I have a male friend, and I recently found out that he is on a swinger site, and is meeting random people for sex. Now what he does is his business and normally I couldn't care less, except he has a girlfriend and on the site he is ... (268 words)

My ex and her friends have turned my new girlfriends life into a living hell

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

1 August 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay so I dated this girl for a while and we even got engaged. We broke up because I made a horrible mistake. I wasn’t attracted to her and I didn’t love her, I proposed because I thought it was the right thing to do. When I realized that it was wrong for me to be with her ... (251 words)

What exactly does "passionate sex" mean?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2785 days ago

1 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Everyone! So im seeing this new guy who is 8 years older then me,i am in my early 20's.Were getting on great and really enjoy being in eachothers company. The only thing that i am really worried about will be when it comes to our first time sex. We have had our disc... (267 words)

He's hurt so many people but I still have feelings for him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

1 August 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Is this guy really a loser. ive got this ex from 5 years ago,occasionly he has contacted me and wanted to hook up,a few times i have given in to this. thing is he is 46 never been married he got a women pregnant but wasnt interested in the kid. he doesnt work,does drugs ... (206 words)

I need to broaden my social circle

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

1 August 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Today is the 1st of august, and i haven't hung out with a friend since the beggining of july. I rely on one friend entirely too much for my social life. I realistically have about 3 friends i can call up and hang out with. And one friend has been off the grid, working constant... (179 words)

Am I weird that I have multiple girls I have a crush on and all at the same time? Does this happen to other guys?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

1 August 2012 (M)

age 22-25 - Is it weird to have crush's on different girls at the same time? I am a 13 year old guy and I want to know of it is a little weird to have multiple crushes all at the same time where I like different girls. I like girls and I have had lots of crushes on girls before. And sti... (94 words)

What is the legal age a girl can marry in India? Do you think we could marry without parental consent and settle in another country?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

1 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiiiiiii dear cupid...i m 18 yrs old indian girl and want to marry a 23 yrs old pakistani guy after 2 yrs.. we both met in a marriage function. we will settle in a third country after marriage..ok so i just want to ask this what is the age I can marry without parents cons... (119 words)

Virgin with extremely high sex drive but don't want premarital sex!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4103 days ago

1 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - i am 24 year old female and virgin. I have an extremely high sex drive. Yet, I am a virgin and I havent even had my first kiss. Yeah, I have masturbated, but that hasnt helped and I dont want to continue masturbating either. Personally, I dont think its good for me. Oh, and I ... (68 words)

If I started dating to spice up my marriage would that be cuckolding my husband?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

1 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - AS a joke my husband took and posted few photos of me on the internet. Over time he received loads of request for more and after telling me what he did it became a real turn-on for us both. I later started a web-site and the request for more, gifts and dates have poured in. I ... (130 words)

Am I just staying for the security?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4494 days ago

1 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know what to do I've fallen for my friend, basically after discovering my partner had an affair I turned to a friend for emotional support. At first it was all innocent but now I feel that I want more I love my partner and would never betray him the way he did with ... (217 words)

I don't like his actions but I'm still with him but I'm paranoid !

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4494 days ago

1 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there.. Im 22 and my partners the same age. We hav been together for 4 years. i kissed someone else bout 2 yrs ago after yelling my partner for ages that i wanted more attention from him. I regretted it deeply and told him straight away. He forgave me. Then in feb this year ... (249 words)

Every time I invite her to do something she's busy. Is she just not interested?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4491 days ago

1 August 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, I met this girl a 2 weeks ago through a mutual friend. That night i took her number and told her we would do something soon enough. A few days later we went out and we had a blast, I ever ran into another friend of mine who saw us together and told me that chemist... (362 words)

Advantages and disadvantages of dating a younger man?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

1 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ladies, what do you think about dating a younger man? One of my friends recently broke up with her ex and began dating her current boyfriend one month later. He ex is 1 year younger than her and her boyfriend is 2 years younger than her. I know the older you are, the less age ... (147 words)

How can I help my boyfriend keep a stable job?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

1 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - How can I help my boyfriend, he hasn't been able to hold a job for longer than three to six months. He keeps getting let go and it seems to me for the most ridiculous reasons, such as talking too much and too loudly.I've been with him for about a year and half and I love him ... (286 words)

What in the world is going on with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4494 days ago

1 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So this is what's going on: My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 2 weeks. He already has told his parents he loves me, and has told me the same. I'm not sure if that is a good or a bad thing or if I should be worried about it. He's not trying to get sex, because he ... (149 words)

Is my brother's best friend actually flirting with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4495 days ago

1 August 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So I'm 15, and my brother is 22. His friend works at the same place as my brother and went to school with his as a kid but was two years younger. He is 20 years old. When I first met him at my brothers work he was really nice and seemed to be hitting on me, until he realized ... (269 words)

How can I end this friendship gently?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4495 days ago

1 August 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I just started a new school at the start of this year. it was my first time being away from my friends that I have known for about 6 odd years. I had never really had to make friends before, so I panicked and became friends with a couple of random people. Now that it's later in... (256 words)

What can I so to avoid sinking into depression again? What help do I need? From where? How can I access help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

1 August 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I've gone through depression, and I mean I've been through it really hard. I ended up way better, and I'm thankful I'm happy again. But I feel like my life is slipping away again, and I'm slowly going back into depression. I've been practically through hell, and I'm so scare... (179 words)

Is he just after sex or something else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4495 days ago

1 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I get so confused over this guy, I have no idea what he want from me. And im sorry that this is a long question. I met this guy 4 weeks ago at a club, and my best friend ended up with his friend so we just followed them home since they lived togheter,and me and my "guy" jus... (406 words)

First love and first heart break and I'm feeling confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4494 days ago

1 August 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - hey i am 13 nd about to be 14 next month about 9 months ago my guy bestfriend introdueced me to his friend which happens to be one of my bestfriends cousin well we ended up fallin for eachother and went out ifor about 8 days but it only took 8days for me to fall inlove wit ... (220 words)

Will she come back to me? what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4494 days ago

1 August 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - our first day of love was 23 feb 2006 she use to study at class 9 and i class 12.our relation was 6 years 6 months long n she used to love me more than i, we were like in a living relationship and we had in june 2012, we used to date in parks, hotels, shopping malls, big ... (447 words)

Why do woman hook up with married men?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

1 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My question is simple, Why do women hook up with a married man? I would like to hear from those who had a relationship with a married man, why did you do it? Love? Sex? Adventure? ... (36 words)

I like my boyfriend and best friend equally,what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4486 days ago

1 August 2012 (F) age 30-35 - hey guys so i have a boyfriend who is older than.me and i have been with him for 1 yr now. things are great however i have always had a thing for my best friend. thing is my friend has recently told me that he has feelings for me too. he does not.no that i.have always liked ... (109 words)

How can a doctor check if you have damaged prostate nerves?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4494 days ago

1 August 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - How can a doctor check if you have damaged prostate nerves?... (11 words)

How do you cope with a controlling friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4494 days ago

1 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, so my question is how do you cope with a controlling friend? Me and my boyfriend had an argument, nothing major, but i thougth our relationship was over i felt tlike he didnt care, but he proved wrong, he begged for me back i kept saying no but he begged and begged e... (292 words)

Is it normal to talk about sex like this when we've never even made out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4471 days ago

1 August 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so i've been dating this guy currently for almost a year.We are both 16 and our one year anniversary will be in about 3 1/2 months, but this is the 4th time we've dated so we know basically everything about each other. Even though we have dated this long we have never done ... (480 words)

Am I so bad for feeling this way towards him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4495 days ago

1 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - i dont know what to do please help ive fallen for my best friend. we have gotten closer over the last few weeks, he has major problems with his girlfriend and has been with her for 5 years. he needed someone to talk to and i was feeling low and i dont know how but we kissed f... (213 words)

We were more than friends but it didn't work, should I give up or keep hoping?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4495 days ago

1 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - we were friends and started seeing each other but were never official. we fell out quite a bit so he told me he thinks we should just be friends so we don't destroy our friendship. i've seen him since in a bar with friends, one minute he was talking to me like normal, nex... (198 words)