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41-50,
anonymous
writes: sorry to bather you with my question. I will be happy if you will find time to answer me. i think about everything too much and nowi try to do everything right but im bit lost.I met a guy, great in the beginning (4 weeks ago), we had also great sx. but now he is distant 1 week and after the week without contact yesterday he didnt reply my message on fcbook (i sent request yesterday, he accepted but didnt reply) i wrote him that i will be there and there with a friend drinking beer and will be great if he shows up. he didnt reply. Does he have interest? I feel like to call, feel like cant wait not knowing! or should i just wait? i appreciate your advice. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (13 August 2012):
I think that he just wanted the sex. You've only known each other 4 weeks, and it seemed to move very quickly. After 1 week of him being distant, I'd probably say that all he really wanted was sex, and now he's moved on.
I think that it's worth you trying to talk to him to see how he feels, and whether he wants to continue seeing you. But, if he says no, or continues to be distant, then you need to leave him alone.
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