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Archived questions from: 21 August, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I do everything he wants but I don't get anything in return.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

21 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid My bf of 2 yrs never have time for me nowadays. Never calls, never picks up the call. I always hv to apologies even for his mistakes, always takes me granted. I just want him to be nice to me, i do everything he wants but I don't get anything in return. What shou... (82 words)

If I can't orgasm while masturbating and thinking about my boyfriend, does it mean I'm not attracted to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

21 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend, Henry, for three years, loved him for seven. He's currently away in Washington visiting his relatives for the summer. He won't be back until September 9th. I love Henry and I've always been attracted to him. My friends don't get why I would be b... (130 words)

Am I waisting my time with this, should I just end things now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

21 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Im going to try to keep this as brief as i can lol I met this guy at a party about 4 weeks ago hes 25 im 20. He asked me for my number which i was was very shocked at because i didnt think he was looking at me like that. During the night we played beer pong together talked ... (1211 words)

My marriage is over, I know this, but it is a good idea to contact one of the girls my husband has been cheating with?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

21 August 2012 (F)

age - Dear Cupid, I have been married to a serial cheater for 28 years. I have prayed, screamed, cried, stalked, snooped, anything I could do to make him see what he was doing. Honestly, even though I "knew" what he was doing, I never actually caught him until three weeks ago. I p... (191 words)

I used to be confident, happy and more sociable but now all I want to do is avoid being around people as much as possible.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

21 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - 2 years ago I persuaded my boyfriend to move to my town so that we could live together and be together, knowing full well that things weren't going very well but thought it woud bring us together. It didn't work and I found out that he was quite emotionally abusive and ... (558 words)

My kickboxing teacher acts very weird around me. Opinions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

21 August 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay well I don't want people saying a load of shit. So I go to kickboxing club and I'm a blackbelt. My teacher seems very flirtatious with me...... When we do fitness he seems too be looking at me, sometimes I catch him staring at me , but for some reason he doesn't look awa... (256 words)

I am a cheater but is that really so bad?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

21 August 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I am cheating on my GF. should i stop. i cant help it i like the excitement of chasing new women and when i see a beautiful woman im curious how it feels to be with her. but i like having something guaranteed at home. but people make it seem like a big deal to cheat. but no one ... (76 words)

Does he love me? Want to dump me? Or just sickly obsessed with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

21 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay .. This is the first time that I'm doing something like this .. But I need answers .. So my boyfriend and I are now dating for about 8 months and I'm starting to noticethe jealousy . And its becoming more and more by the day hy doesn't want me to go to my friends or even ... (165 words)

We had a stupid fight but now my relationship is on the line! What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4474 days ago

21 August 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, So I am in a bit of a bind. Last week, my girlfriend and I ended up having a fight over something completely stupid - on both parties. We were dating for almost 2 months (this week is 2 mo), and i got mad at her for texting her ex - under suspicion that i... (526 words)

How can I convince my friend with benefits that we should be in a relationship again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

21 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I dated this guy for a year and a half. We've been through a lot. Then he dated my best friend and it killed me inside a little. After she dumped him I started talking to him again and started being friends. Then we started being Friends with Benefits. I told him I might st... (101 words)

Should I have sex with him before I leave? I'm a virgin.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

21 August 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So recently I met this guy in Georgia and ever since then him and I have been flirting and making out,and you can say that we are dating. The problem is I'm leaving in a few days and he tells me wants to have sex before I leave. I'm a virgin and I have no idea what to do. ... (62 words)

We have been dating for 9 months but we haven't done anything together or spoken in months! Is it over?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

21 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there. I have been dating a guy for nearly 9 months now and everything was going well until approximately three months ago. He calls/texts me less i.e never and we haven't been out together for those three months. Granted we were both bust with our own work commitments for ... (218 words)

How can I gain more confidence in order to save my marriage?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

21 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i dont know why but im shy to strip for my husband...how can i get comfortable in my own skin? after i gave birth i got stretch marks and i dont like my body anymore.this is ruining my marriage and i hardly hv sex with my man anymr...i want to be able to tease him,strip for hm ... (100 words)

Does he need time or just being nice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

21 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - He broke up with me in a nice way. I still feel a little confused though. He said he isn't ready for a commitment so thats why he ended things so okay with that but @ the end of the break up email he wrote and I quote- "Hope someone gives you everything that you want, sorry I ... (82 words)

How do you know if/when somebody's falling for you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4472 days ago

21 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. Sorry if this sounds stupid,but I am new at this.My two previous relationships were with abusive,violent guys,so this is completely out of my frame of reference. How do you know if/when somebody's falling for you,or are in love with you?I've been seeing t... (125 words)

Should I continue this and hope for the best?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

21 August 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Our brief history is this, we met as lovers, intense poetic, passionate lovers. Eventually we both left our marriages, became supportive friends and lovers discussing love, loss, family, dreams, goals. We keep in constant communication, telephone calls, texts. In March I ... (346 words)

I am going on my first date, in quite a while, and would like some advice.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

21 August 2012 (F)

age - I am going on a first date this weekend with a gentleman that I met online. We have taken all of the correct steps...email, text and then phone calls. I am extremely nervous and don't want to mess anything up. As you may be able to tell, I've not dated in awhile. We wil... (89 words)

Have any other women used Cerazette before?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

21 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've just been put on the pill, cerazette. Thing is, I went round my friends last night and all of them said how they would avoid that pill because of the side effects and you experience really bad depression and gain so much weight and all these other bad things. Well I ... (277 words)

Should I ask to join him at his friend's birthday party?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

21 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly a year, and I love him a lot and I trust him. However, the other day he got invited to a guy friends birthday event in a bar and it came up on my newsfeed. I don't know the guy or anyone else on the invite list (it's not that he didn't ... (383 words)

Feeling single in this relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

21 August 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, here's my problem. My girlfriend and I started dating back in November of 2011, and we were great. She was always happy around me, any time we had together she seemed to love, and always wanted to spend more time always told me she missed me. But back in March of this yea... (188 words)

His Mom undermines my ability to discipline my child. We live with her. Would it be wrong to leave my Bf?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

21 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship for the last 3 years, the last year and a half has been nothing but an emotional roller coaster. Earlier this year we had financial troubles and so we moved back into my mother in laws house. I have a daughter, who is my entire world. Right no... (385 words)

My father saps my confidence but my real problem is how do I forgive my mother for not protecting me enough, when I was a child?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

21 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, small background of the situation being: When i was 12-14 i got regularly mentally, physically, emotionally and verbally abused by my father for years. My mother had just has my younger brother and states she did not know , but the reality is that she just chose not t... (269 words)

I started dating a gorgeous, model-like, ambitious, cheeky guy, and he's now turned into an overweight, boozy, attention seeking boy!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

21 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - This is really tricky and I'd appreciate both male and female help with this. I've been with my lovely boyfriend who I care deeply for for two and a half years. When I met him he had model looks, a great body and I couldn't keep my hands off him. He's now 30 and over the two ... (408 words)

Re-met my Ex. At first it was so promising. Now the interest has tapered off. Is this how guys are with their friends?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

21 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Is this really the way that blokes behave with their friends? My story is a little complicated, but in a nutshell... I met up with an ex again after many years apart, we had both moved on in that time and are in new relationships. However when we met there was something s... (566 words)

Is he falling in love with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

21 August 2012 (F)

age - Hi Aunts, I am seeing a wonderful man who treats me very well. and i love him dearly. However he has never said he loves me,yet he will tell me he misses me everyday where not together.last Sunday he asked me to go to a function with him and i did so ,he said he wanted to sho... (133 words)

How can I spice up my sex life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

21 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I would like to spice up our sex life but I don't know exactly how to do it its not like I can go to my mom for advise so I always see very helpful people on the site I'm willing to go to the ends of earth to make my man happy,should I buy toys or creams anybodies advice will ... (75 words)

He's saying nothing about this to me. Am I paranoid? I can't stop worrying, especially because I'm in a LDR with him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4474 days ago

21 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My (not that close) friend (let's call her B to avoid confusion) is having trouble with her boyfriend. She recently asked me for advice and then I found out she also asked advice from my boyfriend, which I was okay with. This was about two weeks ago and now I've found out t... (231 words)

What should I say to him? Let alone do about him? Should I ask him out? Or let him do that?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

21 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i,ve known this boy (X) since last august we met in school and we've been slight friends ever since. well in april i went to this concert with my mom and my 2 friends well when we were there my mom said my name and i was ma'am and she was like X is here i said like now? a... (323 words)

Is it wrong to sleep with other women while I'm trying to get over her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

21 August 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I was recently rejected by my best friend. I'm doing the best I can to get over it (mostly by trying to get with as many women as I can so I don't look totally pathetic to her), but it's hard to care about anyone else because I'm still in love with her. I'm not trying to lead ... (75 words)

How do you deal with pubic hair growing back?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

21 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - For people who have sex regularly, how do you deal with the growing back of shaved pubic hair? It loses the smoothness after only 1-2 days, so doesn't it get uncomfortable for your partner with the stubble? Shaving the stubble creates hell for me. I'm in a relationship now ... (57 words)

Ffacebook issue with my LDR. Help Please!!!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

21 August 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - So, Im here in need of advice =) My ldr girlfriend and i are happy, i love her and she loves me. We ve been together for 3 months and I just came back from a trip to europe to see her, mom and some of her friends and she doesnt like the idea to change her relationship status o... (289 words)

He has broken my trust.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

21 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - today i got to know...he is having relationship with amiddleaged married FRUSTRAED woman ..ignored by hr husband family.i know her too .i trust him so much.i m blessed with a baby and she ll turn 4.now i m again pregnant .he is so busy.we didnt communicate as well and i m ... (130 words)

I am concerned about the young man living in the house with my Cortland.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

21 August 2012 (M)

age - I am 60 dating a retired 54 year old woman.she has a 22 yo son and his best friend age 22 year old friend living in the same house. I could accept her son in our relation but I am concerned about the male friend living in the same house in terms of privacy and potential ... (124 words)

Why does he show me he loves me but won't say it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4469 days ago

21 August 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I am very close to a man at work. He is married. He has made comments in the past indicating that his wife gives him flak for him not telling her he loves her. They have been married for twenty years and have four kids. I know he thinks he should not have to tell her he loves ... (318 words)

Ex is going religious for the wrong reasons

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

21 August 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Alright folks, this dabbles in a very touchy subject - religion. Steer clear if you take offense easily! Lets play some catch-up for a second. Here's the VHS fast-forward version. GF and I break up. GF gets new boytoy. GF realizes new boytoy is abusive and controlling, dum... (371 words)

Is it bad to not go home to visit parents except during holiday season?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

21 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it bad to not go home to visit parents except during holiday season? I am getting static from my family, my mother mostly, because I didn’t go visit them this summer. A friend of mine’s family has a beach house and I spent time there but I wasn’t spending money on plane ... (117 words)

His feelings are "complicated," and I'm heartbroken. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

21 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - His feelings are "complicated," and I'm heartbroken. What should I do? I dated an older guy for 6 months. I'm 38; he's 60. He told me we were made for each other and he didn’t know sex could be as special as it was with me. He sent sweet text messages. He wanted to be exc... (1043 words)

Young Woman attracted to a man over twice her age or just really fiendly?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4472 days ago

21 August 2012 (M)

age - I'm a mid 40's guy who works in the IT sector. Most days I have been going to the same local Subway for lunch over the last 6 to 8 months. There is this young chinese girl who looks about 17 or 18 and I think is interested in me. I say "think" because I'm not 100% sure i'm ... (189 words)

I texted I love him and now he is ignoring me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

21 August 2012 (F)

age - I have been with my bf for 2 years now and the other morning I texted I love you my friend and he is ignoring me now. Im so hurt why the hell would he do that. Its not like I asked hime ti marry me or anything. ... (50 words)

My friend wants me to have a threesome with him and his brother.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

21 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Um...my friend(who I really like) wants to try and have a threesome with him, me, and his brother. I agreed but now nervous. I really like him but I don't want him to think I'm just the type whose up from anything. He told me, he wouldn't mind going out with me, but just not ... (91 words)

After ten years of marriage, I find out my husband has had an affair.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4472 days ago

21 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am writing because I need advice. After 10 years of marriage and two kids of ages 8 and 2, I found recently that my husband was having an affair. I kicked him out of the house but now I want him back. My husband now blames me for our split and states it has everything to ... (169 words)