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30-35,
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writes:I met this guy at a club.I liked him at first sight .I thought he liked me,too.he thought I am good looking and show me off in front of his friends.He was like my dream guy. I am afraid I can never meet someone just like him again.He does not like me at all. he just try to use me as a booty- call (I did not have sex with him though.)he wants to have a three some with his guy friend so i yelled at him . he sucks he did not even understand why i was so mad at him.how should I handle with this situation?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (13 August 2012):
 just ignore him..
you will meet the right person at the right time...
go slow... give them time to chase and woo you... it's old fashioned but it works...
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (13 August 2012):
 He might have come off as a Dream guy but he really was quite the sleazy toad, you see?
This is why you take your time getting to know a guy.
I would honestly ignore him and move on. If he does contact you I would tell him to go fly a kite, and then delete his number/block his number.
I think you handled the situation JUST fine by setting him straight. (well maybe the yelling wasn't needed, but I bet it made YOU feel better, so in my book that is just fine)
Remember you can't always judge a book by it's cover.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (13 August 2012):
 Just ignore him if you come across him, and don´t sweat it. Don´t sweat it at all. You made a bad judgemnt call, it happens, and it will be useful to you in future, in order to become more discriminating and distinguish nightmare guys from dream guys. Not to be preachy but...." who sails these seas, catches these kind of fish ". Club scene. "Like"- lust, in fact - at first sight . Immediate hook up ( even if without intercourse ) based on superficial , skin deep attraction from your side , and just being drunk and horny on his side.
Common scenario, - and not the end of the world if both parties have gone out precisely with just the intent to blow some steam off, but not the right setting for meeting the guy of your dreams.
In fact, I suspect that by this expression you just meant that you thought he was out of your league lookwise, so you HAD to catch him and not to let him slip through your fingers. Hurry is always a bad advisor, you were in a hurry to close the deal, and it much probably showed at body language level. Your eagerness- to be liked, to be appreciated, to get closer to him - has been read by the guy as eagerness to get laid without further ado...and the rest is history.
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