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writes:OK, so i have been hanging out with this guy for the last 4 weekends, going to parties and such. his mate kept telling me to hook up with him, and that he hasn't been flirting with any girls since i've been hanging with him. the thing is though, i only talk to him in the weekends, when we are asking each other what we are planning for the weekend. he hardly ever texts me durring the weeks, so i cant get to know him. ive hooked up with him once.Is he just trying to get into my pants ? i like him, but he seems like trouble :/
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (13 August 2012):
 Not much info to go on... but if you wonder, then it would be a good idea to NOT be sexual till you no longer wonder.
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reader, dougbcoll +, writes (13 August 2012):
 " i like him, but he seems like trouble" go by your instinct. you already sense something is not right by his behavior, trust your instincts . he may very well want to get into your pants and then be off to the next adventure. you don't really know the guy well , so my advice is slow down. be cautious . you have a red flag going off in your head or you would not be writing, correct ! trust your instincts and watch this guys character to see what he is made of.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2012): Its hard to say "is he just trying to get into my pants", as you haven't really got to know him and if the one time you did hang out with him, he didn't make any sexual suggestions to you, then why would you assume he wants to get into your pants?
Best bet is to text him a little bit more and see if he's interested in getting to know you, or if he just wants to know on a weekend.
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