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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Im pregnant for my cheating ex fiance but now iv just started dating the guy of my dreams. Hes amazing, so accepting of my pregnancy and knows we come as a package deal no two ways about it. Wev gone baby shopping and downloads baby apps to monitor how the child is growing. We dated a little before my ex fiance but he didnt commit due to us living in different counties. Now he says hes not losing me again, am i dreaming to be with this guy or will me and my baby hold him back in life
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2012): well if he's stepping up to the plate where the baby's biological father didn't, taking care of you and the kid, then your kid should be calling him 'dad' not the cheating ex fiance.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2012): "Will the baby and I hold him back in his life?"
The baby won't hold him back but you will with your immaturity, neediness, and deadbeat cheating baby daddy whom will likely continue to reappear in your life to play you like a fiddle when not using the kid as a weapon and/or leverage against you.
Stop being an irresponsible clueless ditz obsessing about your love life, start acting like the mother of the human being growing inside you who is now and will be for several years totally dependent on you for his/her survival.
Grow up.
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