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writes:hi, ive been with my boyfreind for a month now and i love him, but we have different views about things that are important to us like religion. he keeps bringing it up, and saying that im the one that offending him.im just wondering if a relationship can work if people have these important ideas, but they have opposite views about them.we don't have a massive amount of things in common to start with, and when he starts saying things that i disagree with it just makes me wonder if this will work Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (14 April 2012):
 if after a month he is offended and you disagree on fundamental things like religion I doubt in the long run this will work out.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (14 April 2012):
 I agree you two are incompatible and you are both wasting your time.
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (14 April 2012):
 Spot-on advice from Cerberus.
I will add nothing more than: you've only been with this man a month - a very brief time. Better to make a clean break NOW. Your differences will just become more prominent as time goes on (if you don't)and you'll both become more unhappy and frustrated.......
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2012): No it won't work. These differences are too big and you don't really have anything in common. It's a pretty clear case of incompatibility.
Do you think love, attraction and lust are really going to make up for just pretty much not getting on at all?
He keeps bringing up things that cause you to have some pretty serious disagreements OP it's only been a month and already you find very little agree on, very few things you both have in common, I mean what do you think it will be like next month or a few months down the line once the passion subsides?
Be honest OP if you weren't in love with him do you really think that you and he would even make good friends? Because that really is the most important thing of being with anyone, being able to enjoy their company even when the passion fades.
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