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writes:How do you initiate morning sex? I always notice my fiance has morning glory like any healthy man but I have never had morning sex with him as I have to wake up about 2 hours before him for work. He comes home for a week or so in a few days and I was wondering how to initiate morning sex. What should I do or say to let him know I want to have sex with him? I am normally quite shy and submissive but I want to try sex first thing in the morning while I have a few days off next week. Also what positions would be best? Is morning sex even any good? Thanks in advance x
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reader, JustHelpinAgain  +, writes (19 April 2012):
One of the best memories of my life was when I returned home with jetlag and passed out - in the early hours I was woken by a rock hard erection and my then fiance's warm lips rubbing up and down. Once she heard an appreciative groan from me she came out of the blanket and climbed on top and the next two minutes were as good as it gets. Sadly never to be repeated!!
Try it, he will need to have had a few hours sleep and no sex for a few days. If he makes any questions just tell him you are hot and can't wait. If he complains of assualt I think you have a problem.
Good luck and have fun.
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reader, 1sunshine  +, writes (15 April 2012):
 Super easy for me. ;)When we wake up, I lay down on my side and he will turn my way and put his arm around me. Wearing only a thong and a tee shirt. I slowly grind my ass into him. = morning wood. The rest is history! :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2012): This morning I was woken up to my girlfriend getting off me after just having had sex with me. I had tonnes to drink last night and fell asleep before we could get it on and seeing as I would be very hungover today, she decided to get it while she could as I'm literally useless at life in general when hungover.
I don't agree with person12345's sexual assault thing but then again I don't know your fiancé maybe it's best to ask some evening what he would think of waking up to find you grinding on his morning glory, to me when in a relationship my body is my girls and she can do whatever she wants with it whenever she wants regardless of whether I'm asleep, blind drunk or otherwise. My consent is always implied unless I specifically say no (even then I wouldn't begrudge her if he went ahead with it anyway), she doesn't have to ask ever.
OP initiating morning sex is the same as any other kind of sex but there's a few things you have to consider.
1. What time he went to sleep. If you wake him up when he has had very little sleep he may be grumpy and annoyed with you and reject your advances, which can leave you feeling like crap. I can become vicious in the mornings when woken up prematurely and it ruins my day. Be careful with that.
2. What time does he have to be up? Similar to the above if he doesn't have work for 4 hours and you wake him up for sex and he can't get back to sleep he may well be annoyed.
3. Fresh breath and warm hands. There's not sexy about your girlfriends morning breath assaulting your nose while she's trying to be sexy hehe and equally as awkward is the sudden feeling of a cold pair of hands on your body waking you up.
4. If you use contraception such as condoms then don't skip that step, the last thing you want him to think is you can't be responsible while he's half asleep. I have a guy friend who has a kid now from an insane ex who did that to him (although I think he's just making an excuse)
5. Unless he specifically says he wouldn't like it and the above conditions are met then it's seriously great fun to wake up and find your girlfriend mid orgasm on top of you, using your penis to get off. There is just something really cool about knowing that you don't even have to try, your woman just wants your body.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (15 April 2012):
 Well for us yesterday was my waking him and saying "assume the position" because he's too ticklish for my preferred methods
cuddle up behind him...
snake your arm around his middle
kiss shoulders
grind hips into his tush
kiss neck
kiss arm
keep grinding
pull him backwards slightly
keep kissing things
once he's awake enough to realize what's going on... it begins...
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reader, person12345 +, writes (15 April 2012):
 Don't say anything, just wake up by kissing him and climbing on top of him. Though don't actually have sex with him until he wakes up and can consent, as having sex with sleeping people is legally sexual assault.
It helps if you masturbate yourself to complete readiness before you start trying to wake him since he is probably going to be out of it and groggy at first so you can get right to it.
It's best if you are on top at first probably, because again, he'll probably be groggy and a little out of it. Though you should go with the flow, if he wants to roll over or something, just go with it.
This doesn't need stress or a lot of thought, just go for it if you feel into it. It's especially nice to wake up from an unfinished sex dream and get right into it, though I don't know how common those are for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2012): Move in close and breathe in the smell of his skin. Nuzzle in close. Shift yor body so it aligns with his and allow him to feel you cuddling close. Don't go naked. you need some mystery.
And wear a sheer semi see through really lovely negligee - silk will feel good on his hands.
He will get the message
it is premature to talk about positions - that will happen naturally.
you do not need to say a word, he will get the message
Your skin is your biggest organ so make sure it smells and feels nice.
Sex at any time of the day or night is nice as long as you keep it nice and natural.
Do not just start with fellatio when he is asleep - that is not nice.
But some half asleep cuddling and he will become aware of you and aroused and interested. And somd shifting your body to nestle into his body will start things happening.
He will know what to do and you should not need instructions, and no dialogue except to encourage him once he has started. Though once he has started then you can caress his body and get with the flow, doing what comes naturally.
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reader, Daniel the love doctor +, writes (15 April 2012):
 Yes it's perfectly normal for a guy to have "morning glory". And it may excite him very much if YOU do something about it. You don't necessarily have to say anything in my opinion... just go for it. You can begin kissing him (or on him) while rubbing his penis. Or if you feel bold enough in the moment... you can start out with some slow, oral sex- and see how he responds. If he likes it (which I'm pretty certain he will), you'll know. Once he completely wakes, you both can engage in intercourse. As far as what positions are best... well that all depends on the positions that you like. Because quite frankly, everyone has their own favorites/suggestions. But if you're stuck doing the same positions all the time, you should definitely read up on the Kama Sutra and/or look up "Great sex positions" on Google.
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