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*aymama88
writes: Ok so I've know this guy since I was like 7 he was my broz besttriend..... for about 6 months we've been sleeping together just friends with benefits kinda thang. Well now I'm 4 months pregnant he's so happy he goes to dr appt with me spends time with me and loves on me and bought me a 20,000$ car cuz tha one I had was pos .... he great in like every way... but now we haven't had sex in like 3weeks I'm confused cuz we used to sex everytime we seen each other and now not at all .... but he spends more time with me than he did before. He loves on me more than thn too. Could it just be tht hez trying to make our relationship stronger and bk away from tha sex since thtz all our "relationship " used to be about? ?????
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reader, jaymama88 +, writes (15 April 2012):
jaymama88 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you bunches! !! That sounds like a great idea :)
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (15 April 2012):
No, I don't think so. Many guys tend to slow down on the sex during the pregnancy, because they think it's "safer" for the baby NOT to have too much sex.
I think it's a good thing that you two spend more time bonding in other ways then sex, specially with a child on the way.
Talk to him. You could take him with you to your next OB/GYN appt. and ask the doctor about pregnancy & sex, so your BF can hear first hand that it is ok.
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