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female
age
30-35,
*eeni
writes:hello frnds, i need help ok lemme tell you ...i met this guy on facebook but actually we wereschoolmates he was my senior but we hardly talk the only thing he used to to in school was staring at me and onnce he made an effort and asked how i was doing ??that was was last time we spoke to each other face -face after that we never met each other but suddenly on facebook i gt a frnd req..he asked my number though initially i was reluctant to give my number but ultimately i gave him my number ...after that we continously chat with each other text each other and he said he has a crush on me n even i said so but the problem is that after he came to know that even i have the same feelings for him ..i can find out certain changes in his conversation like most of the time he would pick up the topic of sex and he hardly asks what i like or not he finds all these things childish but my question is ,is he really into me or my body ??he even says u were cute in school now u r sexy ...i have asked one of my frnd who actually knows him ,he says he has seen with many girls but he is not sure whether they are his frnds or not ??he is eager to meet me but i want to knw whether this person is a playboy or he is really into me?? it feels pathetic that the guy in school was so good n now after 5 yrs he has changed completely ...he even mastrubate while talking to me but when i ask him what u r doing ?? he replies nothing ...he even has a problem in saying i love you ..he says it whenever he wants a phone sex but at the end i say no to phone sex even... pls help i dont want to get into his trap ...whether these are the signs of a playboy or not???
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reader, Foot-In-My-Mouth +, writes (14 April 2012):
 He's using you. I just know that type too well. They are usually frustrated jerks who can't score with girls and when they get a chance, they'll use women for their dirty fantasies and then disappear and opt for an arranged marriage. Stop taking his calls.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (14 April 2012):
 He is a horny masturbator, that's what he is. Five years he was too youngs and shy to be sexting with girls but right now he let his penis rule his life. He has to be taught manners and that it is disrespectful to use a girl's voice as a masturbating tool. He said he has a crush on you and that alone is not enough to say he has romantic feelings for you. The feelings are not the same here. You want a boyfriend and he wants someone to masturbate to. A player is someone who fakes a romantic relationship to get the sex he wants. So far this guy had done none of these. A playboy is someone who actually pursues a girl or more and bedding them without the intention of forming a serious relationship. In my opinion he did not trap you. He did not know why this is upsetting to you. Maybe he thought you are as horny as him and therefore is picking up his phone calls. The only way to stop the sex calls is not picking up the phone, because that's the only thing he is interested in.
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