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female
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30-35,
*pendy
writes:{Moderator note: two questions from the same OP combined}What should I say to him? I want to break up with him.?I was with my ex for 6 months. He was my 1st love. I loved him a lot and he told me he loved me too all his actions told me he lived me. Then suddenly he broke up with me saying he wanted to be single. I was hurt but I left him alone.A year later, i was still missing him. Didnt get no guy in that year. He got in contact, apologised and we got back together. Cause I still love him and he says he wants is to work this time cause he's realised I'm a good girl. He told me he dated someone after me. ( so much for being single, liar!)A week after we got back he starting been depressed, he says hes going through family problems. I told him I will always be there for him. He even said he's a loser, selfish and broke why do I wanna be with him:(But I don't care about all that cause I love this guy. He has stopped ringing me. He texts me and pours his heart out about how he feels and like an idiot I am I always tell him things to make him feel better.Last time we spoke was last week Saturday. We haven't spoken in a week.Now, I have a feeling that he's seeing someone else and the whole depression thing is to get me to dump him.Ive realised that this week hasn't been bad. I'm good without him.But is his birthday on Monday should I text him anything? I don't want to contact him I want to forget this guy.I've spent too much of my time on a guy who will never love me the way I love him and I want to finally move on cause I deserve so much better than this.I know he'll text me saying he's still going through family problems in a day or 2.. So what should I say when he does text. To let him know I'm done been his doormat.?Please help.. Thanks..x P.s we're both 22What do you think of this text? Should I send it to him? I'm really upset:(? ?Long story short. I love him, but he doesn't lovee. He keeps playing with my emotions. He texted me asking how I'm doing like nothing's happened. and I want to reply back with this:"I thought you said you can't be with me that you done love me anymore. So why are you texting me? I'm sick of your immature mind games. It was just the sex that you wanted. You were lonely and horny and You lied and manipulated me just to get in my knickers. Your a horrible person. You used me and now you've found someone else your interested in and all that depression **** was just a lie to get me to end things. I'm not stupid. You've used me and have made a fool of me long enough. Can't believe I've wasted so much of my time caring, loving, supporting and above all devoted to someone who's so cruel and selfish! You don't deserve a good person like me. I'm done been your doormat. Go find someone else to play with. Karma is a *****. Remember that! Loser".Is that good? Should I send it? Or anyone got anything better.?
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reader, oldbag +, writes (14 April 2012):
 http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-cant-find-a-guy-to-love-me.html
read the answers to your last question
DO NOT text him you need to get this man out of your system for good
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (14 April 2012):
 I am not sure what is happening in this guys life, but am not sure you should send that text in case he is actually suffering with depression, it may seem he is using it as an excuse, but depression can be a serious problem for a sufferer and if you are not sure if he is lying or not, it is best not to bring that in to it. If you feel like you are being used as a doormat then don't continue it any longer. Just avoid him and ignore his texts and get on with your life. You don't need to send him any horrible messages or anything that you might later regret, remain the bigger person in this and just let it go. If he is using you then yes you deserve better so just avoid him completely and get on with your life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2012): hai,
when you are not happy with a guy,you can move on and find find a good partner.he has not been fair to you anyway.Dont hurt yourself further by loving him.you can just text him that you are no more interested in him and move on.he didnt care for your happiness anyway
bye
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